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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 10, 2023

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I agree a lot is left unsaid in the original post. But I suspect what the OP is reaching toward is that a child has should have a right to a biological mother and father (a reasoning that I think could only rely on ideas of Natural Law) and technological or legal advances have blown past that bench mark without any reflection.

I'll take the discussion in a different direction: 'planned orphanhood.' There was a news story where an Israeli mother's only child son was killed in army and she made the decision to have his sperm harvested in order to one day have grandchildren. If people have a 'right' to children, do people also have a 'right' to grandchildren? I don't have anything concrete to say about the original topic of surrogacy or the planned orphanhood, but I believe the advances of technology in this area have come without pauses for legal implications, and seeing ethics on other topics change so much in person's lifetime (not my own I'm not that old!) I think in the future the ethics of this area will probably be changed.

But I suspect what the OP is reaching toward is that a child has should have a right to a biological mother and father (a reasoning that I think could only rely on ideas of Natural Law) and technological or legal advances have blown past that bench mark without any reflection.

If so then he missed the mark. Heterosexual couples can make use of surrogacy too. My wife had to have a hysterectomy for medical reasons, and as a result we've discussed the possibility of having children via a surrogate. Those children would have a biological father and mother (my wife and me), but I don't see how it would be acceptable to OP. He seems to be more rooted in an idea of disgust about surrogacy in and of itself, not just that he doesn't think gay couples should pursue it.