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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 13, 2023

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You're really getting your punches in against those wicked Republicans. Do you actually want kids or do you want to dunk on Republicans for a bunch of unrelated reasons and this was a convenient excuse? I mean, tipping culture and the general existence of elected Republicans? Those are really factors in your personal choice to not be a mother?

I'm a father and lack of taxpayer paid therapy and the existence of restraunt tipping hasn't impeded me yet.

Yes. My state has terrible labor laws put in place by Republicans and upheld by Republicans. One of those labor laws allows businesses to substitutes tips for wages, and in the 10 jobs I have had in this state, 5 of them supplicated my wages with tips. I find that type tipping culture present in a company to be extraordinarily indicative of a corrupt and unethical business owner, and with the knowledge 50% of my jobs had corrupt and unethical business owners, it makes me nervous to lose my job and have to find a new one in a state where I have a 50/50 chance of having a boss who will try to sabotage my work/life balance with unethical and corrupt decisions.

And yes, I find the existence of the Republican party as an active threat to the safety of everyone, including my future children I very much want to have. I am, no kidding, the 57th great-great granddaughter of the first king of Norway, and it would be a shame to end the royal line.

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I am, no kidding, the 57th great-great granddaughter of the first king of Norway, and it would be a shame to end the royal line.

Bro, you can't go this mask off in trolling. Come on, bro.

I'm not trolling. If you'd like to message me privately, I can send you proof of the genealogical book my grandmother wrote that traces my ancestry back to the mid 1500s starting with the owner of Sud-Bjorntuft Farm, Taraldson Bjorntuft (earlier than that and I will have to get my grandmother to send me some PDFs for you).