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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 27, 2023

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Are we suppose to assume, blacks, the youth, poor men, men without degrees, and guys without their own place are inferior romantic partners, and or more misogynisitic than their rich, old, white, college educated, apartment renting counter-parts?

The answer to this is obviously yes. Of course a man who doesn't even have his own place is an inferior romantic partner. Who would want a guy who isn't independent. Are blacks more misogynistic? Almost certainly, anyone who disagrees isn't familiar with black culture. Or for something more concrete look at rates of rape and domestic violence

This is outlandishly culturally biased. Essentially everywhere except North America, people live with their parents until they save up to buy a house/move in with a partner. They may temporarily move out for schooling and whatnot if it's not close to home, but the expectation is certainly that they stay and save while they're close to home (were you going for a meta cheap shot about Asians/South Americans/Middle Easterns being inferior romantic partners by inference?).

And do Asian parents let their adult kids have their sexual partners stay overnight in the family home? Is it acceptable to be banging some girl that you are not engaged to and not going to marry (because your family already have plans about that) under their roof?

Even you mention saving up to move in with a partner, so does that mean that while both parties are living with their parents, nothing more than hand-holding goes on?

Asia is facing its' own fertility crisis, but I think it's safe to say that almost universally, family housing isn't conducive to premarital sex. My point was rather that if it's a norm, it's not particularly unattractive, as it is in the US. Are Japanese, Indian or Chinese refusing to date because their counterparts still live with their parents?

Also, I can't say I've witnessed this in Asia, but Brazil, for instance, has the whole love motel thing going on, where entrepreneurial businessfolk set themselves out to allow the generationally entrapped to tryst and frolick away from the watchful eyes of their progenitors.

Wonder if Brazil's love motels were inspired by Japan's love hotels.

Huh, any Japanese care to chime in about how widespread these are with various generations?

The part about parents going to get away from their kids is an amusing dynamic, in my eyes.

This is outlandishly culturally biased. Essentially everywhere except North America, people live with their parents until they save up to buy a house/move in with a partner.

No, not really. ("Essentially everywhere expect North America and North/West Europe" would probably be more correct, though.)

Scandinavia doesn't surprise me here. I had a Swedish friend whose parents started charging him rent when he turned 18 (not unusual in the US, unheard of in Southeastern Europe/Asia).

Are blacks more misogynistic?

lower income probably big one

Of course a man who doesn't even have his own place is an inferior romantic partner.

depends; if your parents got a mansion, then not a hinderance

Sadly that has about as much chance of working as responding with demographic data to "look at how dumb and illiterate southern states are."

Evidence that doesn't fit the programmed frame just goes in one ear and out the other.

I think OP is pointing out the inconsistency in the wokes hostility towards they very groups they claim to otherwise be sympathetic towards. Poor "people of color".

The mainstream wokes really hate incels, whilst incels largely comprise of the set complement of the demographic they hate the most explicitly, rich white good looking men.

The answer to this is obviously yes. Of course a man who doesn't even have his own place is an inferior romantic partner. Who would want a guy who isn't independent. Are blacks more misogynistic? Almost certainly, anyone who disagrees isn't familiar with black culture. Or for something more concrete look at rates of rape and domestic violence

I mean you could make that argument, sure. Thing is, though, the mainstream media and progressives are trying to argue that these guys are single purely because of poor character, from their point of view, the races are =. (its on the inside that counts.) The question is: are the following things listed good indicators of a persons moral character?

Being poor, uneducated and not independent is typically a sign of either laziness or low intelligence. Is that considered poor moral character?

Being poor, uneducated and not independent is typically a sign of either laziness or low intelligence.

Sure, in reality. But in the leftist model of how the world works? Being poor, uneducated and not independent is a sign that you're oppressed, and thus deserving.

maybe in a liberal model sure, but a leftist one i'd hard disagree there.

Sure at a societal level progressives seem to believe that but not at a personal level.

Being poor, uneducated and not independent is typically a sign of either laziness or low intelligence. Is that considered poor moral character?

Such a thing would have to assume that all outcomes are a result of the efforts of those individuals, and that there were no outside factors either giving them a significant boost, or holding back the people in the lower class. This pretty much were a lot of the debate lies. I dont know if there is a good answer. But i will say that simply believing that everyone who is poor and lacks a degree is a lazy bum is quite suspect as an explanation. Unless it could be proven otherwise.

Character is not determined by work ethic alone. And it is not fair. Neither is work ethic, one does not choose to have low conscientiousness. We live in a causal universe, all our outcomes were determined at the precise moment the universe came into being. Our society makes efforts to let people with merit not be held back by circumstances imposed by something other than merit, this is a good strategy because it helps us maximize global utility, but it's not fair. This is perhaps the strongest moral argument for something like "from each according to their abilities and to each according to their need". It is indeed a lie that anyone can be president, precisely one person per election can be and their victory was preordained by the uncaring forces of physics.

So on balance the question of character really does come down to "will a relationship with this person benefit me" and there are many to which the answer is no. We should probably do something about this as a society.

one does not choose to have low conscientiousness

Do you think that anyone chooses anything? Or are you arguing that having low conscientiousness is different from, say, having voted Green?

Well choice is an illusion and all that but as far as choices go scores on these traits seem stable and not like something that can be modified later in life the way that party affiliation can be. So they're meaningfully different in that sense. Society needs to treat conscientiousness as a choice because it makes the whole system run and justifies necessarily unequal outcomes, but that doesn't make it so.

scores on these traits seem stable and not like something that can be modified later in life the way that party affiliation can be

As far as I know, there is a genetic component, but conscientiousnes can be modified. Not as easily as how people vote, but not as impossible, like willing yourself to not have schizophrenia.

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