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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 6, 2023

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So, you’ve now regressed to the “people who disagree with me are lame weirdos who get no bitches” stage of normie-tier arguments?

No more so than anyone else here I would argue.

The standard form of the argument in question is that the lame wierdoes can't get "bitches". HlynkaCG is claiming they choose not to, which rather puts a different spin on the "lame wierdoes" part. I can say candidly that similar advice was of great personal benefit to me.

Sure, I think that’s a reasonable distinction to draw, although in the context of Hlynka’s entire post - and his oeuvre more broadly - it’s difficult not to default to a less charitable read.

It’s also not clear how Hlynka believes that asking “the cute barista” out on a date will significantly help the dysgenics issue; one of the reasons why many HBD advocates struggle to find partners (I’m well aware that the reasons are numerous, but this is one of them) is that the majority of the single women they are likely to interact with on a daily casual basis are not selected for intelligence, let alone for sensible beliefs about the nature of humanity, which means that it’s not worth investing significant effort into dating them only to have the relationship implode after the first deep discussion about race. Or, even worse, for the relationship to result in marriage and children, only for the woman to fill the children’s heads full of egalitarian nonsense.

I’m not saying this is the primary reason why so many of us far-right “weirdos” are single, but I can say that this has been one of the serious obstacles in my personal life. In any case, if the shot across the bow being fired at my side of this particular battle is “maybe if you stopped autistically sorting people into theoretical categories like they’re data points on a spreadsheet, and spent that mental energy getting laid, you’d have better personal life outcomes”, that argument is both correct and also missing the point on, at least, an intellectual level.

Is finding a mate a priority or not? If it's not a priority, it probably won't happen. If it is a priority, obstacles can be overcome. It seems to me that a lot of single men approach this from the perspective of "it'd be nice if I found the perfect woman, otherwise no thanks". But in the first place there are no perfect women (or men either), and in the second place, being in a healthy, committed relationship is incredibly beneficial, in a way that I think a lot of men don't realize until they've had it. Certainly the modern world does not often grant single men the experience of being cared for and valued as a person.

Assuming that finding a mate is a priority, the two questions that follow are first how to be a worthwhile mate yourself, and then how to find a worthwhile mate. Ideally, one wants a selection mechanism better than "someone I'm willing to have sex with/is willing to have sex with me, at least once." What is more desirable is a good person to share one's life with, and of course the possession of enough goodness oneself that a good person would be interested in sharing a life together. Since it is lives at stake, you want something that penetrates through the surface detail and into the core of identity, worldview, lifestyle. You want people who make thinking long-term and being responsible part of their core identity. Such places exist, so if you're dissatisfied with the quality of the women in your social circles, why are those your social circles in the first place?

If one is an outspoken racial ideologue, that's probably going to be a hard pass for most women. But why is being an outspoken racial ideologue necessary? Sticking rigidly to the evidence and disdaining theorizing, maintaining a humble admission that one can be wrong, appealing to evidence on the defense and refraining from actively pushing the issue is likely plenty, and all of these are good practice in any case, because HBD is not a terribly actionable worldview.

If your intellectual pursuits interfere with the process of gaining and keeping a family, they're probably not worth it. A family of one's own is immensely valuable, far beyond what theory can provide. Almost all theories will be irrelevant in a decade at the most. Family will shape and enrich your life till the day you die, and then continue shaping the world on and on long after you have returned to the dust.

It’s also not clear how Hlynka believes that asking “the cute barista” out on a date will significantly help the dysgenics issue...

It's quite simple really. If you believe that dysgenics is a serious concern, and If you believe that you are intelligent enough to be worth reproducing with, the obvious solution is not to whinge on reddit about it. the solution is to have more kids.

The thing that rationalists always seem to miss about the opening Idiocracy is that the "smart" couple chose their fate. They chose decline, They chose to be replaced. The future belongs to those who show up.

Then you are one of the ones that @FCfromSSC was just talking about.

It’s also not clear how Hlynka believes that asking “the cute barista” out on a date will significantly help the dysgenics issue; one of the reasons why many HBD advocates struggle to find partners (I’m well aware that the reasons are numerous, but this is one of them)

It depends on what you want to do with your life.

Do you want to be normal normie, normally living in normal society like everyone else, or do you want to be rebel and revolutionary, destroying the normal society root and branch?

If the former, behave and think like every other normie, no other advice is necessary.

If the latter...

https://www.marxists.org/subject/anarchism/nechayev/catechism.htm

The revolutionary is a doomed man. He has no personal interests, no business affairs, no emotions, no attachments, no property, and no name. Everything in him is wholly absorbed in the single thought and the single passion for revolution.

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Tyrannical toward himself, he must be tyrannical toward others. All the gentle and enervating sentiments of kinship, love, friendship, gratitude, and even honor, must be suppressed in him and give place to the cold and single-minded passion for revolution. For him, there exists only one pleasure, one consolation, one reward, one satisfaction – the success of the revolution. Night and day he must have but one thought, one aim – merciless destruction. Striving cold-bloodedly and indefatigably toward this end, he must be prepared to destroy himself and to destroy with his own hands everything that stands in the path of the revolution.

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The nature of the true revolutionary excludes all sentimentality, romanticism, infatuation, and exaltation. All private hatred and revenge must also be excluded. Revolutionary passion, practiced at every moment of the day until it becomes a habit, is to be employed with cold calculation. At all times, and in all places, the revolutionary must obey not his personal impulses, but only those which serve the cause of the revolution.