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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 6, 2023

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I chose those words deliberately

not deliberately enough! your word choice was meaningless as your argument (which you have failed to argue) is based on strawmen. calling that out is fair, esepcially as its against the rules here

You can call me a wordcel, but I like using a variety of words

oh don't be mistaken, i wouldn't dignify you by calling you one unless you had actually demonstrated you could use those words correctly. using random words with no regard for their meaning isn't wordceling, it's just being pseudointellectual

Lol ok, I have explained exactly how I meant each of them, so I am sure you will have no trouble at all explaining exactly what I got wrong, right?

i did already

Break it down further for this pseudo-intellectual - it currently looks to me like you are saying I used the words incorrectly because you didn't like my argument.

Edit: Ok I just read @DaseIndustriesLtd post and I owe you an apology, I fucked up. I was wrong to call your behaviour insipid pedantry based on that. However even if I'm too dumb to use normal basic words that even children get right correctly, I still used the words insipid and pedantry correctly.

esepcially as its against the rules here

You wanna have a slapfight, fine, but don't do this wikipedia shit. Keep it personal.

Keep it personal.

No, please don't.

don't do this wikipedia shit.

you do realize this place does have such rules right? it isn't intended to be an echo chamber

I believe you have largely trespassed against the rules. I don't report you because I have an even more pronounced free speech philosophy than the mods. Even for people who try to call the mods to slap their slapfight opponent for them.

i'm reminding our friend of this forum's rules because this isn't intended to be a free speech forum... especially since he claims to dislike hypocrisy so much.

The #1 forum rule (it's right at the top of the sidebar) is Courtesy, and you're trespassing against pretty much all of them.

Stop being antagonistic, stop with the personal insults, and stop trying to start slapfights.

i'm pointing out the flaws in someone's argument, which amounts to "out-group bad"

the response i got was continued attempts to assert such and was clearly made in bad faith, as was the initial comment in the first place. it's low effort and is only inviting circlejerking, which i am going to push back against because... well there's no substance to the argument.

i'm pointing out the flaws in someone's argument

But you didn't just do that. You also made it belligerent and antagonistic.

If you think someone else is violating the rules, then report them.

"But I don't want to report them!"

Okay, fine, but that isn't a license to ignore the rules yourself.