I made this a top level post because I think people here might want to discuss it but you can remove it if it doesn't meet your standards.
Edit: removed my opinion of Scott from the body
I made this a top level post because I think people here might want to discuss it but you can remove it if it doesn't meet your standards.
Edit: removed my opinion of Scott from the body
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I hate to say it but yeah, that's been a viable strategy for me.
I have erected thick layers of defensive cynicism which leads me to constantly question other person's motivations, assume they are self interested and at best looking to extract money from me, that they will use any piece or private or personal information you divulge against me in this quest.
No hero worship. Nobody is going to intervene on my behalf, and likewise I feel less inclined to intervene on others' behalf if I do not expect reciprocation.
I am the tit-for-tat-with-forgiveness strategy made flesh.
There's been enough instances of my trust being earned and broken that I have to expect and prepare for it to occur more often than I' d like.
But the other side of this is that it leads me to place extra value on longstanding friendships that have stood the test of time, and become particularly protective of said relationships.
I don't prefer this way of being, but if I hadn't learned to stop being naive I'd have been blown up long ago.
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