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I'm going to guess she was doing au pair or nannying work. If she didn't go through an agency and wasn't approved, then that's a no-no. It could be that the host family tried to claim the wages they were paying her as expenses, or some other thing that triggered "hey this person is working on a tourist visa". Reading the family's claims, I'd bet that back in 2023 she did get in to work legally as an au pair (the host family in San Francisco) and this time round she thought she knew the ropes and could do it without going through an agency, as she wanted to work while on a tourist visa (after all, if you're just visiting as a tourist, why would you need to research about what does and doesn't count as work?):
This is how most illegals from these parts end up in the USA; go on a tourist visa, find a job, deliberately over-stay and hope you won't be picked up. She was just unlucky (or dumb).
I'm surprised no-one has pointed out that if ICE are going after white European illegals, then the Trump directive can't be called racist 😁
I think it was Au Pair work too; eg chores, babysitting in exchange for under the counter 'pocket money', room & board and cultural exchange. Western governments have traditionally turned a blind eye to this sort of thing for a while, to the point were people doing it expect that it won't be targeted. Unfortunately for them, the current political climate happened.
Also, I agree with others that both: A - the rejection from Canada triggered additional US BCP scrutiny; and B - there is a possibility that either her artist work or political views didn't work in her favor.
Something that isn't really focused on is why Canada rejected her for 'au pair' work. Details are (deliberately) vague.
She seems to have tried to cross the border on an American tourist visa, got told "no you need one specifically for Canada" and was sent back, and maybe that triggered ICE as looking like "someone trying to enter US from Canada without proper paperwork".
I could then see her getting questioned about how she was supporting herself, giving an answer about working for host family/families, and then oops but you're not here on an au pair visa, you're here as a tourist, and that sets the ball rolling.
But so far we're only getting her family's side of the story, and of course they're not going to say "yeah actually she intended to overstay her visa and be there as an illegal", so who knows what the real story was? Maybe when she came as a tourist, she was also trying to scout work as a comic artist there and that's what got her in trouble also, if she was selling art or doing commissions or looking for freelance work from publishers.
Lots of things could be behind the scenes, we don't have all the information yet.
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