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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 3, 2025

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Musk did not wear a suit when meeting with cabinet officials last week, an obvious sign of disrespect.

I assume this is a reference to the recent Vance / Zelensky event; and I agree that the administration's overall stance on this is a case of double standards and hypocrisy. However, I disagree that lack of a suit (for Musk or Z.) objectively can be interpreted as disrespect.

However, I disagree that lack of a suit (for Musk or Z.) objectively can be interpreted as disrespect.

Why do you disagree? I don't think it can be objectively interpreted as disrespect if people are misaligned regarding the expectations for a given setting, but if everyone is familiar with the expected level of formality and one party unilaterally settles on wearing joggers instead, that is absolutely a sign of disrespect. In the context of meetings between heads of state, Zelenskyy's choice of attire is certainly a signal, the only question is what exactly he's signaling.

Since he has already made not wearing a suit his "thing", it would have also been a signal for him to wear a suit. It would have probably signified a humiliation and subjection, a kowtow to the new Emperor.

I'm thinking of another leader who made disrespecting sartorial codes his "thing", the Greek PM Tsipras during the euro crisis, who made a point of not wearing a tie until there was a debt deal. Of course, when the debt deal was made, it was basically the same old austerity he had been elected to end, and when he wore a tie it was obviously an indication of submission (though the actual submission had been made far earlier).

It could also have been a signal about peace. His old style was the wartime-style. Switching to a suit visually indicates that a new era is at hand.

It would have probably signified a humiliation and subjection, a kowtow to the new Emperor.

@Dean was quite sure it would have signified selling out. I have a feeling that if we keep rerolling this discussion, well get yet more comments that Zelensky was definitely in the right with explanations that sound good in the context they occur but contradict each other.

I'm not sure if he was right or not, mainly posted to make the Tsipras comparison which has been on my mind for a while.

Curiously, in both his read on Zelensky and yours on Tsipras, theres seems to be idea of getting to wear something more formal. I dont see that attitude a lot, and especially wouldnt have expected it with a western leftist like Tsipras.

Zelensky was told to wear a suit, but he ignored this request:

https://www.axios.com/2025/02/28/trump-zelensky-oval-office-meeting-details?fbclid=IwY2xjawIvvGhleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHcl4MkMXu8xsDht4I9bWxmSGVNMdauUG3cZLlrBnTGQoxNV6iAyOdZFjiw_aem_7qKwtQao5R7cNRbftItcEQ

One small but not insignificant factor that irritated Trump was the fact that Zelensky didn't wear a suit, two sources with direct knowledge told Axios. Trump's advisers told Zelensky's team on multiple occasions that it would be more respectful for Zelensky to ditch his military-style attire when visiting the White House.

This is interesting to hear since Trump ultimately defended Zelensky not wearing a suit before the blowup.

I think not wearing a suit in a place other people are expected to wear one is usually a performative flex ("You can't enforce your petty dress code on a Man of Destiny like myself".) and therefore disrespectful to the host, though mildly so. This is obfuscated by the fact that western PMC norms are not to publicly dress-code people, but to quietly tut-tut behind their backs and freeze them out of mutually beneficial interactions in the future.

In the case of Musk, it was a performative minor humiliation of the rest of the Cabinet by Trump with Musk being the tool ("You have to obey the rules but he doesn't because I am the Boss and I say he is specialer than you.") - my impression of US business culture is that some form of performative minor humiliation at the start of a new job is common and expected among the kind of people who have broadly positive memories of fraternity hazing - but doing it in public is trashy.

my impression of US business culture is that some form of performative minor humiliation at the start of a new job is common and expected

My dear chap, I’d say it’s much more common amongst the British, having seen in the City more than one investment banking intern or junior humiliated for the wrong kind of shoe or wearing a shirt with a breast pocket (or even, on one occasion, wearing a pocket square).

My dear chap, I’d say it’s much more common amongst the British, having seen in the City more than one investment banking intern or junior humiliated for the wrong kind of shoe or wearing a shirt with a breast pocket (or even, on one occasion, wearing a pocket square).

My old bean, if a British merchant banker brought his pet monkey to the office to watch the juniors try making small talk with it, the monkey would be wearing a suit.