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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 17, 2025

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I appreciate your sympathy, but I will not appreciate the sentiment that it “is what it is” and one of my options is a moral stain on society and I should go to jail or something.

I don't expect slavery enjoyers to appreciate my opinion of slavery being a moral stain on society either, but that too is what it is.

The sentiment of this “sanctity” between a birth mother and child is completely lost on me.

So all this Handmaiden's Tale "they just see us as incubators" talk was projection all along? Why are you even bothered by not being able to reproduce, if there's nothing sacred about the mother-child bond for you?

Huh? What Handmaiden’s Tale talk has there been where?

I’m not exactly bothered by it and I like the idea of having children related to me.

Huh? What Handmaiden’s Tale talk has there been where?

You haven't seen any Handmaiden's Tale memes? At all, ever? Not even during MeToo?

I’m not exactly bothered by it and I like the idea of having children related to me.

Well, in that case I find you bringing up your infertility a bit manipulative. The reason people feel sympathy for your situation is that they believe you're deprived of something sacred - literally in case of religious people, and effectively in case of secularists. If you don't see anything particularly valuable about that bond, and it's just a mere "liking" for having biologically related children, the "it is what it is" will commence at an even higher intensity.

No, I don’t spend time on reactionary Twitter lol.

I bring up my infertility not because I want your sympathy but because when you’re talking about women raising surrogate babies you’re talking about me, and there’s this rule where you have write like everyone is reading and you want them to be included in the discussion.

No, I don’t spend time on reactionary Twitter lol

?? Those memes came from online feminists.

and there’s this rule where you have write like everyone is reading and you want them to be included in the discussion.

I absolutely want you to be included in the conversation, but I don't see how anything Corvos said would make you feel awkward, given your beliefs.

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