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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 17, 2025

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I find it very disconcerting that the line between "trans-friendly policies" and "policies which enable perverts to roleplay their creepy fantasies to their heart's content" is so razor-thin, if not indeed nonexistent. I mean, you say that what Darone did was "weird" - do you dispute that he was doing it to fulfil a sexual fantasy?

Yes. I am very skeptical Darone experienced sexual arousal as part of their role play.

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Like, seriously, please try to read this story (and the screenshots) with an open mind, without letting the positive associations the word "trans" holds for you blinding you to the information being presented in black and white. Truly - what part of this story doesn't sound like the behaviour of a deranged fetishist?

https://grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/princess-mom

What other possible motivation might Darone have had to behave like this? Does the fact that something like 75%+ of trans woman are autogynephiles (source, source) sway your opinion one way or the other?

Yeah I can't figure that out either. If he was literally psychotic and believed he was having a baby then I could understand (although I would be revolted by every medical professional he'd been in contact with prior) but if he said he was trans and this was all make believe, well what kind of person goes around using threats (spoken or implied) to force others to participate in their role playing? Sexual gratification is the least bad option I can think of tbh.