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So what you're saying is that London is clean and polite, except for the assholes.
I don't know if I'm allowed to hand out honorary certificates of Britishness, not being a citizen myself, but I feel like you deserve one for that joke haha
Oh, that's nice. I'll have to throw that in the sock draw next to my British passport.
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What did they ever do to deserve becoming a bong?
Jokes aside yes the lack of bidets is a big problem, every time you go to the toilet you basically have to assault your ass afterwards...
It's not too much of a problem to get installed once you find your own place, but still any public toilets you use like at work or in shopping centres etc. still won't have them.
And yes, people in the west, even at the very bottom of the food chain still have it pretty good in global terms. Merely having nationality of a western country sets a pretty high floor on how shitty your life can get as long as you don't try and actively harm yourself.
I was outright constipated for 2 days because I was dreading having to use it after I flew in :(
Eh, if all else fails, I'll stick my bum out the window and let the British weather do its thing, it never failed me in that regard.
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Well there is a dietary component. If you have enough fiber it's not unusual to have nothing in need of much cleanup.
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