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Just want to endorse the second part of what you said. It’s probably some of my Catholicism leaking through here, but I am explicitly not a white nationalist. I am an “American nationalist”. We’re a Christian country, we like guns and big trucks and big tits and bikinis and apple pie and baseball and chicken wings and bigass rockets and we consider the moon our sovereign territory. We hate the government, are naturally suspicious of authority.
That has all led to the most prosperous, most badass nation on earth and if you want to be an American you can, but when you get here you need to assimilate, and part of that means having a near-contempt for the country you fled. I don’t want to hear you talking about your
ex girlfriendold country for 3-4 generations.Maybe that’s a good analogy. Imagine you meet a girl in an abusive relationship with a loser guy. You fall in love with her and help her move from the slums to a giant mansion on the coast.
Now imagine she refuses to be seen in public with you, goes to her exes house for holidays, and talks to you about having
dual citizenshipa polyamorous relationship with her ex, who she also keeps sendingremittancesmoney to. Now imagine she also wants to talk about your toxic masculinity (which saved her) and the problematic nature of your wealth.Yeah no thanks. We’re down to marry the super models (Werner Von Braun), but not so much the cheating gold digger.
I get the impression that you and I agree on much and would get along quite well offline. That or we would bicker endlessly like siblings. ;-)
For my part, I have always been partial to Teddy Roosevelt's bit about "Hyphenated Americans".
Maybe we already know each other but are behind seven
boxxiesalt accounts and won’t ever know it.I once found out I'd lived in the same house as a motter thanks to his description of the insane landlord. It's more likely than you think with how filtered we are by irl interests.
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