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Fetuses can't be leftists, yes. This is why I love them.
(You can borrow this response, if you'd like. Chad face gif is optional.)
As a refrain to my own banning, I'd like to say that the sentiment I am rebutting is similarly devoid of value: intersectional bundling of leftist causes does not impress me. In short, it is essentially saying: "Why do you care so much about this, huh? How does this personally affect you, when the world bleeds so much?"
No, I won't approve of them killing their own children in the womb. No matter how much things may suck in the real world. Things will always suck. There will always be injustice for them to point at, to try and shame me into not caring. A giant meteor could be coming to wipe us out like the dinosaurs and I'll still keep caring about the issue in exactly the same way.
The pastor may see it as 'throwing it under the bus', but I prefer to see it as a 'sincerely held belief'.
You can take this response elsewhere.
One week ban for yet another low-effort zinger. Just because it's snappy doesn't mean it actually adds value.
The hammer symbol is how people can tell it connected I guess.
By the Builder, you’ve figured me out.
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You're doing the thing again.
For one brief moment I thought maybe my plea to step back and try engaging in good faith had not fallen on deaf ears.
So, let's be explicit here: if you want to accuse mods of banning people for tribal/ideological reasons, you'd better come heavy, and by that, I mean be prepared to defend your proposition with evidence and well-formed arguments. Not these kinds of low-effort sneers that pretty much every one of us is fed up with.
You haven't been banned because we are loathe to ban someone just for being a jerk to us. But since you seem to be taking advantage of this fact, you've now heard from multiple mods who are about ready to ban you because we really don't need to keep taking shit from you.
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