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And if the Nations didn't want Jewish people to conspire internationally to blah blah blah, maybe don't try to wipe them out every time you're looking for a scapegoat.

(I don't believe there is any international Jewish conspiracy¹, but if there were, I'm not sure I'd blame them.)

¹"I can swear to you, there is no Jewish banking conspiracy. Do you know why? Jews can't agree with other Jews on where to go for dinner! There's no way we control the banks! We couldn't even get that meeting started! 'Alright, Saul, Morris, everybody sit down, we're gonna start the meeting to control the banks.' 'Oh sure, who died and left you king? No, sure, start the meeting, I'll sit over here, I'm nobody, I'm nothing, I got no opinions.'" -- Jon Stewart

Do you really believe that? Isn't the huge over-representation of jews in positions of power due to an in-group bias? This in-group bias doesn't even surprise me, Indians have it too. I actually think it's weird that only whites (particularly on the left) seem so negatively biased towards their own. The idea that jews can't cooperate in general doesn't seem to coexist well with this observation.

If you're disliked everywhere you go, by the way, I'd say that would call for self-reflection.

This doesn't seem like an unfair take to have, and keep in mind that I'm not like other people you've seen talk negatively about the jews. I barely know any history, it doesn't interest me. I don't know much about WW2, and I'm not using any information relating to WW2 in my conclusions. If I must say what I dislike about jews, and why I think others might dislike them, it's that they use feminine methods of obtaining power. Women can usually get away with methods like this (the victim mentality, for instance) because they're good at making things look appealing. Grabbing power through social manipulation without having the skills to make it look appealing, will frankly make people hate you over time.

I wouldn't even say I dislike jews in general, but many things that I dislike, because they're dishonest (like the media) has a very large ratio of jews working there, at the very least. But I will dislike anyone who I think uses dirty means to achieve things.

Do you really believe whites don’t engage in nepotism? It happens to not be mediated by ethnicity, but white people do lots of nepotism on the basis of alumni networks, family connections, religion, etc.

A very big percentage of the Jewish overrepresentation in positions of power is HBD. You’ll notice how much of it is specifically Ashkenazi.

A very big percentage of the Jewish overrepresentation in positions of power is HBD. You’ll notice how much of it is specifically Ashkenazi.

Do you have an actual number on this? I'd be interested in seeing a rigorous, good faith investigation into how much of that overrepresentation is HBD as opposed to nepotism.

This is a fair point, but the stereotype is definitely Ashkenazi and the early life check is usually something along the lines of ‘name ends in -stein’. And Jews are more overrepresented in fields with high verbal IQ(lawyer etc) than in fields with high mathematical IQ(engineer etc), so how much of it is merit is inherently harder to measure.

I’m comfortable saying a big chunk of it is almost certainly HBD without knowing, specifically, how much, and it would shock me if there weren’t nepotism networks that may or may not be available to the average Jew but are definitely not available to gentiles. These things exist all the time- historically Jewish fraternities I’m sure offer fantastically good networking opportunities, like their gentile counterparts. But these types of things are all over the place for all kinds of groups- there’s veterans networking, there’s indians networking, etc, etc.

As far as things like the ADL, or Jewish ‘charities’ that really just redirect money from gentiles to Jews, I’m not a fan, and distinguishing these from nepotism that Jews simply happen to be better at is reasonable, but I suspect they’re rather minor contributors to Jewish success.

I can appreciate the reply and understand your point, but I was gesturing towards a more numerical approach. With IQ distribution plots and demographic numbers we can work out what proportion of a given IQ range is gentile as opposed to ashkenazim, and compare the actual observed numbers with what the IQ distribution statistics would suggest. Obviously it isn't a perfect measure, but I think it beats just going on vibes.

Whites on the right might, but I think it's less than other races tend to. Left-leaning whites seem to have a negative bias towards themselves. I found a picture which seems to reveal this: https://tablet-mag-images.b-cdn.net/production/883104fdaad1810c8dbbb2a6df5a4b6ed7d5036f-2560x1138.jpg

HBD

I'm not sure thats an explain all of it, but Jordan Peterson did write a good argument towards this. However, given not only who is in power, but how it's used, I think it's fairly certain to say that whoever is in power finds some sort of joy in the destruction of Christianity, white people, masculinity, family values, identity, and so on. While there's a lot of psychopaths in power, I can't see why other white people would destroy their own, unless they're brainwashed (which makes them a separate group from those doing the brainwashing, who are also more intelligent).

I also don't think intelligence necessarily correlates with evil in white people. Nikola Tesla was good to a fault, and died poor and alone. Unlikely highly intelligent non-jews, which tend autistic, intelligent jews seem to be wordcels with good social skills and communication abilities. And if the success of jews is genetic, then couldn't a desire for money or power be stronger in jewish genetics as well?

feminine methods of obtaining power.

Can you elaborate on what you mean by 'feminine' vs. 'masculine' means of obtaining power?

Feminine: Using indirect methods, using cunning and deception, appealing to feelings and morality rather than logic, hypocritical. Masculine: Bold, simple, direct, not afraid of direct conflict because it's stronger and thus able to win while playing fair. Uses logic or power. Will say the truth even when its unpleasant. Admits its own faults without shame.

But what I mean by "feminism" clusters with oversocialization (Ted's criticism of left-wing mentality), moralization (Robert Greene), mental weakness (used in comparisons like "good times result in weak men" and insults like "snowflake". It's to my understanding that progrssive beliefs correlate with mental illness, including depression and anxiety, so I don't think this criticism is entirely unfair), and "Slave morality" (Nietzsche).

If you compare how women and men compete for social power, there should be some overlap with what I wrote above.

If you're disliked everywhere you go, by the way, I'd say that would call for self-reflection.

How can non-existent people self-reflect about why they are hated in places they don't go to?

Many of the places with the most Jew-hatred have basically no proximal Jews to hate. The Arab states basically ethnically cleansed themselves of Jews last century, and yet Jewish spy animals is practically a genre of comedic international media. These do not happen because the locals have some well informed awareness of Jews, or any sort of significant exposure to Jews from which to make an informed opinion.

Many have never actually met or had a real interpersonal relationship with a Jew at all, positive or negative, to have an opinion about. They have never had a Jew apply feminine power against them, because they have never met a Jewish man or woman.

And by extension, this means that no Jew has met them.

They have never had a Jew apply feminine power against them

Not directly, but indirectly. If you see some powerful people do some terrible things, and these people just happen by sheer coincidence, to be jewish about half the time (despite only 2% of the population being jewish), who could blame you for associating the two? Many people have hated "old white men" because most powerful people in the world have been old white men. But at least you can explain this by "well, the country was like 99% white when these people started solidifying their power". And that it's men, rather than women, who are powerful, can be explained by the statistical distribution of personality traits. Some groups also hate "The rich", "The government" or "The elite", so it seems that most people just agree that the top is rotten and filled with terrible people, and that we merely disagree on which trait to identify them by (money, gender, religion, race). You're correct that I have never met any of the powerful people who are actively making life worse for me. They're just jewish at surprisingly high ratios. And the non-jews which I hate still have a distinct feminine way of thinking and acting. It may be that society has lost enough good taste that what I'm calling feminine is simply the dominant strategy.

And it makes sense to distrust the elite, and even to hate them, for they know the consequences of their actions. Countless books (some dating back over 100 years) warn against what's currently happening in society.

Not directly, but indirectly. If you see some powerful people do some terrible things, and these people just happen by sheer coincidence, to be jewish about half the time (despite only 2% of the population being jewish), who could blame you for associating the two?

Anyone with the statistical literacy, which is why I asked the question you have tried to avoid.

Again-

How can non-existent people self-reflect about why they are hated in places they don't go to?

You're correct that I have never met any of the powerful people who are actively making life worse for me. They're just jewish at surprisingly high ratios.

If you have never met any of the people who are actively making worse for you, why do you believe you know who they are well enough to determine their relative ethnic distribution?

Moreover, if you have never met any powerful jews who actively made life worse for you, then how could the number of jews you have met who were not powerful jews actively making life worse for you provide a personal experience to believe that the jews as a collective are actively making life worse for you?

By your own statistics, you'd have a 0 encounter rate of powerful jews who actively make life worse for you, versus a X number of Jews who are not powerful and making life worse for you, where X is the number of Jews you have met in your lifetime. Unless you have personally known 0 jews, 100% of all jews you would personally know would be lived experience evidence against powerful jews being responsible for your misfortunes.

And it makes sense to distrust the elite, and even to hate them, for they know the consequences of their actions. Countless books (some dating back over 100 years) warn against what's currently happening in society.

Prejudice and scapegoating on the basis of historical ignorance are among the things the venerable classics warn against. On the other hand, there are countless old books filled with nonsense, including conspiracy theories and prejudicial scapegoating that other books warn against.

Your question had the premise that jews don't exist, so I just decided to refute that (and to refute the idea that you need to be harmed directly and in person)

And I'm no good at history, I don't know of many of the instances in which jews were "kicked out", but you can't kick out what isn't there, and if a country has built resentment towards a certain group of people, then it would be weird if said group hadn't been involved in something controversial in the country at the time. It would be even weirder if this had happened over 100 times, in many countries, across more than 1000 years of history.

why do you believe you know who they are well enough to determine their relative ethnic distribution?

I don't need to know people personally to know their religion. I also don't need to meet every jew to know what ratio of the population is jewish?

to believe that the jews as a collective are actively making life worse for you?

I don't know if regular jews, outside of elite institutions and rich families, fit known stereotypes. I don't know if they support the plans of powerful people who make life worse for me. I don't even know if they tend left-wing. Lets ask Google: "The AJC survey found that 61 percent of American Jews said they would vote for Joe Biden, while 23 percent said they would vote for Donald Trump". Seems that they do. I also don't know what ratio of these people support feminism and its nonsense.

I don't even know if I've ever met any jews in person. I don't ask people about their religion or race.

On the other hand, there are countless old books filled with nonsense, including conspiracy theories I meant books like 1984. It warned against something that we could see happening in real time.

What do you think about this quote? "Media: lords of public opinion The American media is a willing recipient of Soviet subversion. I know this, because I worked with American journalists and correspondents in Moscow while on the Soviet side, and after my defection to the West. People habitually refer to the American media as ‘free’, ignoring the obvious and commonly known fact that most of the most powerful media in the USA, is already monopolized both financially and ideologically by what are referred to as ‘liberals’. American media ‘chains’ belong to fewer and fewer owners, who, do not seem to mind that the media is being almost totally ‘liberalized’. Liberalism, in its old classical sense, means above all, respect to individual opinion and tolerance to opposing views."

It was published 40 years ago. The idea that American media is left-learning, that it's owned by a few elites, and that modern "liberty" is different from classic liberty (that is, becoming pretty much it's opposite) is not exactly new, but to call it obvious as long as 40 years ago is impressive to me.

What about this one? "Everywhere in the West there are subversive minorities who, sheltered by our humanitarianism and our sense of justice, hold the incendiary torches ready, with nothing to stop the spread of their ideas except the critical reason of a single, fairly intelligent, mentally stable stratum of the population. One should not, however, overestimate the thickness of this stratum. It varies from country to country in accordance with national temperament. Also, it is regionally dependent on public education and is subject to the influence of acutely disturbing factors of a political and economic nature. Taking plebiscites as a criterion, one could on an optimistic estimate put its upper limit at about 40 per cent of the electorate. A rather more pessimistic view would not be unjustified either, since the gift of reason and critical reflection is not one of man’s outstanding peculiarities, and even where it exists it proves to be wavering and inconstant, the more so, as a rule, the bigger the political groups are. The mass crushes out the insight and reflection that are still possible with the individual, and this necessarily leads to doctrinaire and authoritarian tyranny if ever the constitutional State should succumb to a fit of weakness. Rational argument can be conducted with some prospect of success only so long as the emotionality of a given situation does not exceed a certain critical degree. If the affective temperature rises above this level, the possibility of reason’s having any effect ceases and its place is taken by slogans and chimerical wish-fantasies. That is to say, a sort of collective possession results which rapidly develops into a psychic epidemic." Written by Jung in 1957

I don't think it would be right to dismiss these warnings as conspiracy theories since the consequences they warned about have manifested themselves almost as predicted, and since the idea that these predictions are "mere conspiracy theories" is much newer idea (it seems like the attempt to discredit ideas retroactively and to establish the current consensus as correct in a timeless sense)

And we were warned about this, too, in 1883: "‘Formerly the whole world was insane’ – the finest ones say, blinking." This describes how anti-traditionalists speak about the past. They essentially go "Everyone was evil, the past is immoral and wrong, but now we're enlightened by science and know what's good and proper!" and then they try to rewrite history exactly how "1984" said they would.

I don't dislike Jews because of Nietzsche, and while he has written many things about them (including my claims here, that they subverted values and made them more feminine), his overall description of jews seems positive to me. I'm aware that this reply doesn't respond to what you meant by your statement, but I feel like I'd explain my views better.

Finally - is there no group that you think badly about, that you haven't met in person? And isn't your life influenced by a lot of powerful people who your voice is hopeless to ever reach?

Your question had the premise that jews don't exist,

No it didn't, lol. You were making a categorical error of a premise you either didn't know was impossible, or did know but choose to dishonestly advance.

And I'm no good at history, I don't know of many of the instances in which jews were "kicked out", but you can't kick out what isn't there, and if a country has built resentment towards a certain group of people, then it would be weird if said group hadn't been involved in something controversial in the country at the time. It would be even weirder if this had happened over 100 times, in many countries, across more than 1000 years of history.

Why do you think a banal practice in history is weird, other than your lack of historical understanding not knowing it's not exceptional?

I don't need to know people personally to know their religion.

Of course you do, otherwise you wouldn't know if they are Jewish as a religion, Jewish as a culture, Jewish as an ethnic identity, or Jewish as a label that others impose onto them but which they have no particular feelings about.

I don't know if regular jews, outside of elite institutions and rich families, fit known stereotypes. I don't know if they support the plans of powerful people who make life worse for me. I don't even know if they tend left-wing. Lets ask Google: "The AJC survey found that 61 percent of American Jews said they would vote for Joe Biden, while 23 percent said they would vote for Donald Trump". Seems that they do. I also don't know what ratio of these people support feminism and its nonsense.

You believe 61% of a demographic voted for Joe Biden because they support making your life miserable, as opposed to having different perceptions of what is good or that voting for Trump might result in bad things? And that this proves that 2% of the population is responsible for about 50% of the terrible things you hear about?

You may not be making a compelling point, but I am glad you are making it publicly.

I don't even know if I've ever met any jews in person. I don't ask people about their religion or race.

This would be a very good indication that you don't know enough to characterize Jews beyond stereotypes you have no ability to recognize the validity or flaws of.

I meant books like 1984. It warned against something that we could see happening in real time.

1984 is not only considerably less than 100 years old, but it was also not a warning about Jews.

It did, however, make significant points on the use of manufactured hate against outgroups as a form of social control of the manipulated masses to direct their hatred at acceptable targets rather than actual issues.

It was published 40 years ago. The idea that American media is left-learning, that it's owned by a few elites, and that modern "liberty" is different from classic liberty (that is, becoming pretty much it's opposite) is not exactly new, but to call it obvious as long as 40 years ago is impressive to me.

Why does something so small impress you, when insights of the political influence of publishers has been a phenomenon for centuries prior? Forget yellow journalism or American founding father gripes on media bias, one of the bloodiest periods in European history kicked off because of the power of the press, the aftereffects shaped fundamental American political traditions.

Conflating all American media as owned by a singular dynamic as opposed to there being a diversity dynamic is also a classic conspiracy theory, but still a conspiracy theory.

I don't think it would be right to dismiss these warnings as conspiracy theories since the consequences they warned about have manifested themselves almost as predicted, and since the idea that these predictions are "mere conspiracy theories" is much newer idea (it seems like the attempt to discredit ideas retroactively and to establish the current consensus as correct in a timeless sense)

There is an amusing parallel to be made to the greek philosophers on timeless issues, but you wouldn't get it.

And we were warned about this, too, in 1883: "‘Formerly the whole world was insane’ – the finest ones say, blinking." This describes how anti-traditionalists speak about the past. They essentially go "Everyone was evil, the past is immoral and wrong, but now we're enlightened by science and know what's good and proper!" and then they try to rewrite history exactly how "1984" said they would.

Your lack of historical understanding would be why you don't understand why 1984 did not say that.

1984 was a critique of ideological totalitarianism, especially the sort associated with the fascist and communist ideologies. It was not a general characterization of anti-traditionalism, nor was it any sort of accurate characterization of state capabilities of 1883 or other pre-industrial eras. It was certainly not advocating for racial stereotyping and grievances of political opponents.

It was, however, extremely critical of historical ignorance.

I don't dislike Jews because of Nietzsche, and while he has written many things about them (including my claims here, that they subverted values and made them more feminine), his overall description of jews seems positive to me. I'm aware that this reply doesn't respond to what you meant by your statement, but I feel like I'd explain my views better.

Your views come off less coherent and reasoned, frankly.

Nietzshe is a particularly bad philosopher to crib from without historical understanding, not least because he was a terrible historian who tried to use history for his narratives, and also because his was a mess made worse by many of his followers who simply cribbed what they liked in isolation for whatever project they wanted.

Finally - is there no group that you think badly about, that you haven't met in person?

Why should I hate entire groups of people I have never been exposed to and have no understanding of?

There's only so much energy to be had, and plenty of more familiar grievances to be upset over and individuals specifically responsible for them. Hating entire groups is a good indicator of a need to get offline, go outside and touch grass, and then learn more about members of the group other than the hated individuals.

And isn't your life influenced by a lot of powerful people who your voice is hopeless to ever reach?

Why should I make judgements of entire groups of ideologically diverse people on the basis that some minute number of them may be powerful elites who influence me?

Am I supposed to be insecure? A seething victim? Jealous?

You were making a categorical error

I do not believe so, but I'm also not sure where you find the error to be, could you elaborate?

Why do you think a banal practice in history is weird

Because, if the same thing occurs many times in isolation, it's because there's a good reason for it. People can do stupid things and influence eachother, but if the same event happens multiple times in different places which are too distant in time or place to give the other the idea, it points at something in reality. If I go to a club and 20 people are rude to me, perhaps I just pissed off an important person, it means nothing. But if I go to another town far away where nobody knows me, and people at that club are rude, then the cause is either something particular to me, or particular to clubs.

Discrimination against homosexuals seems to be of the same category. (Yes, I'm implying that homosexuals are statistically significantly different in a way that human pattern recognition will pick up on)

Of course you do, otherwise you wouldn't know if they are Jewish as a religion, Jewish as a culture, Jewish as an ethnic identity

I can go by name or the "early life" Wikipedia section. I've seen too many jewish people be in a superposition of "white" and "non-white" and choosing exactly the one which brings them the biggest advantage at said time. I'm not nearly stupid enough to fall for that.

You believe 61% of a demographic voted for Joe Biden because they support making your life miserable

That being jewish makes one much more likely to support left-wing positions like mass-immigration would show a positive correlation with the desire to destroy western society (the outcome of mass-immigration). You can judge people on what they deem "good things" to me. But 90% of the population are so stupid that we can only attribute their values to stupidity rather than malice. The same cannot be said for those sufficiently intelligent.

but I am glad you are making it publicly.

You're outing yourself here, not me.

1984 is not only considerably less than 100 years old, but it was also not a warning about Jews.

It's one example out of many books which predict the future. And my main point is that it says "Don't do X, X would be a terrible idea", and then you see powerful people push for X. Now, these powerful people have no excuse, we can attribute their actions to malice rather than stupidity, as the consequences of X are well known. And if you personally hate intelligent people pushing for X, you're justified in your hate.

Why does something so small impress you

Because many spaces have been considered "far left" for supporting freedom of speech until about 10 years ago, where freedom of speech somehow turned into a right-wing value. Classical liberalism and modern liberalism are almost opposites at this point, and most people I've seen mention it will say that it changed 10 or 20 years ago. Even back doing "occupy wall street" I still felt like there was support for the "little people" against the elite by the internet and the media, but now the media is the corrupt elite. And the same Reddit which joined the protest in defense of freedom will now ban you for wrong-think. To notice 30 years prior to this that the media is just pretending to care about freedom as it supports the interests of a wealthy elite is impressive to me. Then again, I'm young and didn't get involed in politics before my video games and internet privacy got attacked.

Conflating all American media as owned by a singular dynamic

Last time I checked, basically all American media (90%) was owned by 6 companies, but even this is outdated knowledge and it implies that these 6 have no influence between eachother (which is false). I stick to facts, I do not care if somebody labels facts as conspiracies, or that some conspiracies exaggerate the facts. You can say "conspiracy!" some more, but I'm immune to pretty social status attacks.

On timeless issues

The 1984 take (which has nothing to do with Nietzsches work, I know) goes "Nothing exists except an endless present in which the Party is always right". Perhaps every tyrannical power has a tendency to rewrite history ("history is written by the victors" after all). It could also just be a psychological thing - that every era and culture considers itself to be correct in a timeless manner. In any case, I remain undeceived by said illusion.

It was certainly not advocating for racial stereotyping and grievances of political opponents.

I'm aware. And I don't think it matters what exactly it's criticizing? Do you know those "Fascism checklists" that you can find online? One of the points is "Pacifism is trafficking with the enemy". I'm not one of those people who go "Fascism is right-wing by design, so anything not right-wing must have nothing in common with fascism". No matter where it manifests, I'm critical of that "You're either with us or against us" kind of thinking. I recognize the abstract pattern anywhere it occurs, in any form in which it can appear. It's the same with the warnings found in 1984. It doesn't matter to me which political party says something deceptive, I recognize it as deceptive. I'm against everything which acts like totalitarianism, and my mathematical intuition makes it easy to tell if two things act the same. Generalizing above words and labels helps avoiding accidental hypocrisy. If you're an intellectual which leans verbal it's possible that this doesn't make sense to you.

Your views come off less coherent

Yes, and that's despite dumbing down what I'm trying to communicate. If you are having any difficulty with any of my writing, then there's no way you can evaluate Nietzsche. He deals with much higher levels of abstraction than I do here.

There's only so much energy to be had

That's why heuristics are necessary. Statistics are also real despite being unfair. If you go to a bad neighbourhood known for high rates of theft, then you should hold on to your belongings. You have no reason to think that any individual there is a criminal, but it would be silly to let yourself be stolen from enough times that you singlehandedly have enough statistics to prove that the area is unsafe. That would require like 100 different people stealing from you in that area of the city. And you'd have to start over again in the next city, as it's filled with different people!

My almost 4SD pattern recognition has been a great help to me. How can you live without such a thing? Are you one of those upper-class people who can preach left-wing garbage because you live in a gated community where discrimination has much less value for survival? I do recognize that there's a trade-off between psychological health and guarding against negative elements of life, and I don't take it too far and become bitter like Incels tends to do, so there's no need to worry.