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Given that, which man in his right mind would remain a member of the losing tribe, if he had the option of converting? The bulk of the Afghan National Army could figure out the answer to that one, why not Western men?
If Trump keeps on winning so much that his fans become tired of winning AND if men living in larger cities can keep prestige employment while not swearing fealty to Woke Inc., it's reasonable to assume that we will see an even larger shift in the political realignment of men than the one we observe now.
What has Trump actually won, really? What makes people — on both sides — think he's going to be any more "in charge" of the executive branch than Biden currently is?
I don't think he has. He has the track record of an unusually ineffective administrator.
But this is about perception and status. It's about who won the popularity contest, not about who's in charge of the bureau of boringness.
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They can borrow a page from Islam, and engage in taqiyya.
You say that as if it isn't already widespread practice.
(lays finger alongside nose)
Thanks for the reminder to rewatch The Sting.
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