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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 14, 2024

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I really enjoyed the use of emojis in that transcription.

Kind of a weird ad. Someone's first in-person questions to a prospective date including "how much money do you earn" is pretty tacky, so despite it obviously being not real the only effect of the video on me was that I judged the female characters quite negatively. Also why would you need to ask how tall someone is when they're standing right in front of you?

I don't watch TV though, so maybe this is just standard for these kinds of dating shows. And I did like popping balloons to indicate when something is a turn-off. I could get into a showwhere the women carry increasingly impractical noise-making devices they trigger when prospective suitors do something unattractive.

"In the evenings I like to unwind by painting Warhammer 40k figurines."

BRAAAAAAAAP

I really enjoyed the use of emojis in that transcription.

The emoji in triplicate really works. Singular is visually small and doesn't leave the same imprint.

"What do you do?" sounds like a very reasonable 'getting to know you question' of the sort that tends to come up early on first dates if not before, but uh, "how much money do you make?" makes her sound like a whore and talking about politics that early is just crass.

This ad is tone deaf, but Kamala's campaign has released a true torrent of tone-deaf effluence recently, see the pre-recorded video for the Al Smith dinner(was there a single person who liked it?) so I'm guessing this is a Kamala problem just generally.