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Military Service.
Mining.
Policing.
Construction.
Firefighting.
Relevant Tweet from EndWokeness who is not a preferred source but put all the info in one place.
The most miserable, uncomfortable, physically demanding jobs are inherently male-dominated. As it really should be, given that the role of producing new humans is exclusive to women, and men have to make sure they have a safe, functional society to give birth and raise kids in!
And here's a response to EndWokeness that proves the point, unless you think seamstresses and makeup artists are critical social infrastructure that are miserable to perform.
Are men expected to "internalize the costs" for not picking such a job? Excepting military service in countries where conscription is in effect, of course.
They're going to end up homeless and alone of they can't find some way to produce value, that is all but certain.
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She's...in on the joke, right? She can't possibly believe that 'bridal shop owner' is a similarly essential job as plumber?
Looking through her Tweets, I'm thinking she's in on it (or at least just farming engagement). Says she isn't into politics, most political thing said being that she stands with Israel, references God a fair amount, seems to like Elon.
It seems she's some kind of digital content marketer/entrepreneur.
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You tell me! It sure looks like she thinks she just made a blistering rebuttal.
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