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Those are normies.
Even in the libbest area during the peak of nlm, maybe only 10-20% of the enemy put one of these signs out. These aren't normies and never were.
Stop waging culture war.
Yes, that means that besides avoiding casually derogatory sneers like "libbest" and "nlm" (which usually we'd probably let go if not stacked with a bunch of other antagonism), I am flatly telling you not to call people "The Enemy" when referring to your outgroup, because your outgroup posts here too.
Every time you want to say something about how much you hate your "enemy", ask yourself the following question:
If one of them posted here saying the same thing about me, would I be pissed off, and moreso if the mods let it pass?
Now making an argument that people who post "In this house" signs are not "normies" but are in fact political extremists is fine; you can say that if you think so. But you really need to knock it off with the low-effort sneerposting.
Libbest was not intended as derogatory at all but you got me on all the rest
Not at all
Well, that's nice, but I can assure you if a "lib" posted here about "the enemy" we'd get a bunch of reports, and accusations of being lib-subverted if we didn't mod them. We already get that just for letting leftists post.
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