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Culture War Roundup for the week of August 19, 2024

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The Wikipedia page on "misogynist terrorism" (which considers worrying about "problems men face in the modern world" to be misogynistic, to show its slant) lists 12 incidents total. This hardly seems worth breaking out as an issue of its own.

I don't think that's a fair representation of what it says on the wikipedia page.

The following are specifically misogynist motivations that have been given as primary reasons for indiscriminate mass killings.

Problems which men face in the modern world

It seems especially humorous to me that the section titled "Problems which men face in the modern world" is exclusively filled with quotes from women.

This particular phenomenon was noticed in the Manosphere at least as early as 2011:

I wont say that I don’t admire Mona for having the courage to write a less than favorable critique; particularly one that points the blame back on a feminization that enthusiastically looks to reinvent it’s own social conventions in order to rationalize away the post-Wall dire straits women like Bolick are finding themselves in. However, is anyone really surprised that it’s now women receiving public recognition for acknowledging psychological and sociological principles and dynamics that the manosphere has covered for over a decade now?

I’m glad to see it getting the publicity, but ONLY a woman could write this without suffering fem-screech backlash accusations of misogyny. This is the environment we’re in today. I have no doubt that Ms. Charen will receive her share of frothing hate from ego invested Jezebels, but at least her critique will register for them. No man could write this critique and be taken seriously, and therein lies the danger in women co-opting the message the manosphere has been compiling for 12 years now. The environment is such that anything remotely critical a man might offer is instantly suspect of misogyny or personal (‘he’s bitter”) bias, however, couch that message in a female perspective, play Mrs. Doubtfire, and you’ll at least reach the audience beginning with something like validity.

https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/08/could-a-man-have-written-this/