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None of these people will argue for, say, women not having the right to drive. Some might think dress codes should be stricter but nobody wants Franco-style bans on women wearing pants in public. They let their daughters marry who they want, eventually, even if they don't like the guy too much. They don't think husbands should have the right to use corporal punishment on their wives, or men should marry teenagers, or women shouldn't be allowed to work outside the home(although I wouldn't say many of them encourage it). They think young women living alone is normal and not scandalous.
They're not arguing for Iran-style women's subjugation. They simply think that this particular right was a bad idea we're stuck with. Conservative ideas about gender relations are probably more common and closer to the mainstream in the Texas exurbs than in the northeast, but I was explicitly referring to red tribe normies there.
Women have been able to vote in Iran since the 1960s and that hasn’t changed under the Islamist government at all.
Sure. My point was that red tribe normies opposing women's suffrage are taking an outside the mainstream view on a specific policy question, and not supporting comprehensive social changes.
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I argue the ship on that one saled when the property requirement was done away with. Andrew Jackson and his consequences..........
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Oh ok, I misconstrued several things together that I should not have. Yeah, that tracks and makes sense to me. I was confused because I thought you were implying something you were not.
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