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My mid terms are going to end tomorrow. I had just 4 papers this semester, only two were technical and even they went better than the ones before. I will likely smoke with a few friends and roam around.
I used to think that I needed to get female validation to feel good about myself but in all honesty, it is these little moments that I will miss. I will be leaving college in may 2023, January if I get an internship and that means that I only have a few weeks left of this.
There is something about being with young people. I live with my parents as my house is a 30-45 minute drive from my uni. I was earlier gonna try for a date with some girl or go for pickup but fuck that. I will just chat till 4 am with my friends, sleep on the dorm floors again and maybe eat at some cheap food joint. Reminisce about my oneitis and yell cuss words. It is not exactly what most here would be doing but I just realized that I too will likely be posting what most here post in a years time given I will be employed.
I hated uni and it was my fault that I fucked up all that I did but I still made good friends so yeah, hoping I will get dead drunk tomorrow, make memories forever and stay in the moment.
I have always had a oneitis since I can remember, maybe since 4th grade where I would progressively spend more time thinking about girls, during 9th and 10th grade I had the most fun I ever did in school and I was a complete loser for all girls. I do not remember any of the girls I was obsessed with back then but will always fondly look bad at those years before cram school became serious, same for this year in uni. Spending that night with my friends was more memorable than losing my virginity was.
Do suggest some hangover cures lol, I do not drink but it is good to be a degenerate at times and enjoy these little things. I also got high this Tuesday after a few beers, it was my second time this year and it hit me like a ton of bricks, I was out of it and could barely walk. I think this is what people call a bad trip or something, anyway, tomorrow should be fun.
I hear my parents often talk about how important these little moments are and as a kid I never understood what they meant but now I do.
Like that song two minds by Nero (https://youtube.com/watch?v=KFWFJGfEaNo)
"I told you too many times,
It's the little things that count which can make someone feel special."
Why do you drive 30-45 minutes to get from your house to your house? That seems slightly longer than necessary.
As for hangovers: Drink water. A lot of water. Start before you booze up, keep drinking water while boozing, then drink some more water and keep drinking water until you go to bed. You trade the hangover for needing to piss twenty times in one evening and maybe some kidney problems, but that's the only thing that ever reliably worked for me.
I meant uni lol.
Also wierd night, my first one at a nightclub, the girl I was with nearly fucked me in the girls restroom but I was caught by the security.
Later made out with 3 other chicks, 2 blocked me immediately when I texted them, like wtf man.
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