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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 1, 2024

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The problem is not "all trans women are male pervert rapists", that's definitely not true.

The problem is "you must not misgender the rapist, so when the victim describes the alleged crime, you must edit the coverage to be they raped me not he raped me".

Another reported a trans woman physically forcing her to have sex after they went on a date.

"[They] threatened to out me as a terf and risk my job if I refused to sleep with [them]," she wrote. "I was too young to argue and had been brainwashed by queer theory so [they were] a 'woman' even if every fibre of my being was screaming throughout so I agreed to go home with [them]. [They] used physical force when I changed my mind upon seeing [their] penis and raped me."

Sure, sure. No objections here. Rape bad.

You and KMC are not arguing the same issue as guesswho. He insists that making hay about prison rapists is an excuse to build outrage against a law-abiding majority. I don’t think you’re going to convince him otherwise by making more hay about prison rapists.

I understand that you are genuinely concerned about the rapist situation, which makes further concessions very unappealing! And guesswho shouldn’t expect to convince you otherwise by dancing around the issue.

It’s not a very productive conversation. Y’all are both producing the wrong kind of evidence.

From my side of this debate, what I perceive is all the demands for concessions from us, but no concessions on their side. The prison rapists are a stupid case, but it's precisely because of activism forcing lawsuits that "if I say I'm a Real Lady, you have to put me into the women's prison" is even possible in the first instance. I'd love to forget all about those, if only the trans rights bunch would admit "okay, yeah, there in fact are certain standards about what is a woman and what is not and who is trans and who is not". But they line up behind the chancers and scammers who take advantage, and won't purge them or distance themselves from them, so I don't trust the activist side an inch on "we only want to be able to use the bathroom".