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If I knew who my damn outgroup was, I'd boo them. Right now it's looking like the entirety of Western culture as currently constructed, does that make me an anarcho-monarchist or a Maoist? If you can identity the outgroup for me, lemme know.
EDIT:I think mentally I feel as if the late 12th to early 14th century was My Time, so does that make the Ghibellines my outgroup?
If no one is your in-group that makes things very simple, just don't boo anyone.
If no-one is my ingroup, then how can I have an out-group? Or do I practice radical compassion: yes, that German cannibal-murderer is very naughty, but it would be too judgmental of me to even say that he's being naughty. Cannibal-murderers are my out-group but I must not boo them!
Yeah, that's nit-picking. But I'm trying to say that I don't pick "okay, I don't like (spins tombola drum) people with septum piercings who eat quinoa and talk about their fur-babies, let me go search for a story where someone like that did something bad and then go complain about it". If Pope Francis goes out and does something stupid/wicked (sigh, let's not get into the fighting over that), I'll criticise him even though he's my in-group. The day Francis says "you know what? let's burn the gays!" I'll be there saying "No! Bad pope!" with the best (or worst) of them.
Criticism of people is allowed and always has been. Sneer applause lights with little content are not allowed and never have been.
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Sometimes I just want an argument. Sometimes I'm genuinely outraged/offended, I don't care about the party in question (individual or group) politics, this is just stupid goddamn nonsense for humans to engage in and it's dangerous and harmful as well.
But that can come across as "boo the outgroup" because a lot of the reports on here, unhappily, are people on the other side of the fence from me morally/politically/socially. Unless I slap big disclaimers on everything about "I am objecting to this on the grounds of this is an affront to the dignity of humans as a species, we should not behave like this", how is the difference to be made overt enough?
Take the moth girl: I'm sure she's personally a nice, caring person. EA isn't bad in itself. But the end result of the philosophy as she took it to an extreme was something unworthy of a human as a thinking entity. Now, is that "boo outgroup" because I'm not EA or vegan, or is that "I find this ridiculous at best and actively dangerous at worst, and I don't care if it was done by the Pope or someone I do agree politically and philosophically with"?
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