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I don’t disagree — but whereof one cannot speak, thereof one must be silent, so Lord knows I’m not gonna try and pretend that I know enough to speak about women. A fortiori, I don’t know what kinds of series women watch, although I suppose that this does match up with my intuitions regarding otome games (e.g. replace the bumbling male foil with the unlikeable villainess rival).
Man, that’s a fascinating writeup. Although that one reply seems to call into question the extent to which this is universal.
Yeah, but men aren’t watching Free! from what I understand. (Now, if the idea is that female-targeted gender-swappped CGDCT exhibits this same “lack of competitiveness” as normal male-targeted CGDCT (which, interestingly, is often written by women), then that’s an interesting cross-gender commonality.)
Tomayto, tomahto.
I never heard of Free! before, but from looking it up it seems to be a standard sports anime with massive amounts of yaoi baiting. They do the sports seriously, but it's got a bunch of cute, lean guys posing shirtless.. that's for the yaoi fangirls. They seems to like their seme/uke dominance battles. (But I don't think this is some big truth about All Women, it's just one weird niche community)
They also have "Axis Powers Hetalia," which, despite ostensibly being about war, doesn't really have any serious fighting and is much more "Cute Boys Doing Cute things." Or "Daily Lives of Highschool Boys," which is just a parody of the whole genre.
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That's the claim, anyway. The closest thing I can think of is "Yuri on Ice" which is, as far as I'm aware, not that- it would be interesting to see who the modal Free! watcher is.
Yeah, it's almost like a strict identarian view of sexuality isn't useful when evaluating relationship dynamics or the worthfulness of those that happen to like body type X or Y (and the replies that assume that was about identarian sexuality and assumed the post was an attack on their worthfulness are... missing the point a little, I feel).
The old understandings of gender and sexuality are the correct ones; identarianism is just blank-slatism but for sexuality instead, both were originally born from a desire to fix the cultural contexts about the worthfulness of the non-default ones, and both are wrong in the same ways.
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