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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 11, 2024

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And thus continues the spiral into well-mannered, "rational" circlejerking.

I take a "know it when I see it" approach to whether I think someone is genuine and fiery versus a troll (E.G. Impassionista was most certainly a troll in my book), and HlynkaCG never appeared to be in the latter camp. He just got snarky.

And yeah, being snarky is against your rules. "Your" rules. I appreciate the need to gatekeep to enforce community standards, but if it means removing people like HlynkaCG, then I guess those rules aren't making a community I even want to lurk in.

Have fun regurgitating the same genteel, blowhard-lensed talking points, I'll be hanging out on Rdrama and Kiwifarms. The discussion there is also shit, but at least the users there don't go through foreplay before verbal defecation, and I can call people faggots without getting banned.

And yes, I am being intentionally hyperbolic; I could have spent this post hemming and hawing and then politely asking for a ban, but where's the fun in that?

then I guess those rules aren't making a community I even want to lurk in

Then leave. You shouldn't need us to ban you. What's keeping you here?

Hlynka didn't get banned for trolling. He got banned for repeatedly being a dick to people he argued with. You want to be a dick to people you argue with? You're right, rdrama and kiwifarms and a ton of other places are out there. This isn't any of those places.

Btw, I don't think Impasionata was a troll either, at least not in the classic sense. I think he genuinely believed what he was saying. He just took great pleasure in being as insulting and obnoxious as he could be while saying it.