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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 26, 2024

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I suspect there's literally no way I can phrase this that the mods will approve of, but I think it's actually an important point to make so I will say it plainly:

This comment is a pitch-perfect example of the type rightist whining we've been putting up with for years. I can assure you it is indeed very annoying.

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You’re correct: dismissing your opponents’ fears as whining is petty and counterproductive. If there’s any value left in the Motte, if there’s one reason to hang around here, it’s to actually engage with stuff you think is obviously wrong. Take that away, and you might as well flounce off.

I’m not modding you for responding in kind to a thread of people making the exact same dismissal. I do like it a lot better when you resist the urge.

Right, but this whole post is about how annoying it will be for OP to have to leftists whining for four years if Trump wins.

Which sides whine about what and how annoying it is, is the object-level purpose of this conversation thread.

In other situations I wouldn't have brought this up, and indeed have never to my knowledge done so despite engaging with these types of sentiments dozens or hundreds of times.

You didn't answer his question.

And you didn't respond to the substance of my comment.

Sometimes we have a point to make that's not a direct reply. That's totally fine, and it's weird to me that you seem to criticize it at the exact same time you're also doing it?

Oh never mind, I'm getting confused and thought you were the parent commenter. Apologies.

Ah, if it was a misunderstanding then my critique is off-base, and apologies back.

It wasn’t actually directed at him.

Which, yeah, raises the question of why respond at all. I certainly wouldn’t mind seeing his answer or Tomato’s.