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Who do you actually think you're gaslighting here? The list of people eager to call you out after the hoax became obvious was practically endless, and the way you shamelessly feigned blindness to all of it was an instant meme with no moderator help required.
He had a post about "things I was wrong about" where he "acknowledges" the case by saying something to the effect of "haha, I guess I should have waited a few weeks before commenting", and would probably claim that means he didn't do what he's being being accused of.
What I'm being accused of:
Even if you weren't satisfied with the depths of my grovelling at the time, would you agree that making a post where I said I was wrong about the case contradicts the claim that I refused to ever acknowledge it again?
"The case" was you calling us racists and conspiracy theorists, so no you never acknowledged that, or that it was wrong.
You honestly believe that is the most straightforward and parsimonious reading of the plain text of that comment?
That in a single sentence which references a police case in the first half of the sentence as the central matter at issue, and then uses the words 'the case' in the second half of the sentence, they are awkwardly referring to 'the case of the guy who was rude on the internet' rather than the police case the sentence is about.
That's what you're going to go with?
Your answer will tell me a lot about whether to treat your criticisms as good-faith in the future.
Yes, I'm going to go with "the case" in "refuses to acknowledge the case", referring to "who calls people racist for not believing Jussie Smollet " that literally immediately preceeds it.
You honestly believe that is the most straightforward and parsimonious reading of the plain text of that comment? That because the sentence contains to word "case" it must refer to the police case?
Who do you think you're fooling here? I've never seen you have a constructive conversation with anyone here. You always came here to get your rocks off by riling people up.
Thanks, I know what I need to know now.
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