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I think my beliefs are pretty typical in the sense that I really only care a trans issues in three situations: rape prevention, minor transition, and sports scholarships.
As a woman of middling size, I’m absolutely opposed to allowing males access to women’s restrooms, changing rooms, and most especially shelters. It’s not about trans people per se, but about skeevy men using a trans pretense to gain access to a place where women are undressed and at their most vulnerable. This is simply enabling bad things as the social solution to the problem is now broken — that solution being the rest of society not allowing males into women’s spaces. Now, until this person gets caught doing something (by which point it will be too late) no one is allowed to object.
Minor transition has been covered to death. Suffice it to say my opposition rests on two ideas: social contagion and kids’ innate desire to please adults. Kids have trouble quitting activities their parents are proud of them for. How hard is it going to be, after months of their trans phase being stunning and brave, for a 12-15 year old kid to say they aren’t into it anymore?
Sports, for the most part isn’t an issue, except when it comes to NCAA scholarships. Pro leagues have been cesspits of PEDs for decades, and I think only the naive don’t know that. Duffer leagues where people just play for fun don’t matter much either. The issue for me is scholarships, simply because so many working class women rely upon those scholarships to get into college. Without access to those scholarships, a lot of those women simply won’t go, or will go to community college or trade schools.
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