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Assuming counseling is highly effective. I’ve never seen someone start therapy graduate from therapy. I have seen people with illness stop going to see the specialist once cured.
I think therapy is a racket.
Anecdotally, I've started therapy and been discharged a few times. First time, college counselor kept asking me if I was suicidal in a way that started to seem like she was encouraging it, then when this led to no changes after several sessions, said to just stop coming. (The South Park script for this one basically writes itself.). The most recent happened because the medication seemed to be working and the therapy side of things was just kinda coasting.
Basically, college counselors suck. Male therapists are more likely to try to problem-solve, if you can find one who wasn't trained specifically not to problem-solve (Dr. K of Healthy Gamer has videos on this, but he puts out so many videos it's a pain to dig up one in particular when commenting from my phone). And a therapist/psychiatrist team is better than either separately. Also, Dr. K's recommendations are better than any therapist I've ever dealt with (the only one that came close, I lost because of losing my insurance for a few months).
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I plan to become a psychiatrist, and I think therapy is overrated, at least when considering the vocal segment of the Overly Online who think everyone should be in therapy.
But it is possible to overhype something that is good for some people, some of the time, and the research I've read shows that therapy is pretty effective for many mental disorders, often being considered the first line intervention, such as for depression, anxiety, and so on.
And there are many different types of therapy, from the bullshit Freudian and Lacanian kind to the much better validated CBT. The thing is, even the shittiest forms of therapy that exist, such as the former two examples that are built off pure pseudoscience, work empirically, being better than placebo (or at least no therapy at all), though CBT is usually better. I wager much of the benefit in any of them is purely from the simulation of a helpful, non-judgemental "friend" who'll let you vent to your hearts content and won't tattle on the pain of their friend-card being retracted, and while you could substitute that for an actual friend, apparently those are getting harder to come by and have scheduling conflicts.
Besides, most reputable therapists (especially the ones who aren't into the Freudian crap) at least pay lip-service to the notion that their clients should always be temporary, and that they should be directed elsewhere if several sessions show no benefit. And if the client is showing up to sessions after they're satisfied it's not working, then I lay the blame for their stupidity on them. If they still want to go, well apparently they're getting their money's worth somehow. People go for haircuts and manicures even when the damn keratin just keeps growing back, and barbers aren't a scam.
Don't discount the value of "Freudian" psychotherapy. Part of this is driven by the usual "all the good ideas associated with this have been stolen and become core tenants of the successors" bit. You'd be surprised how much of his stuff is still present and useful.
The other piece is that the "true successor" actually works great. Psychodynamic psychotherapy is probably the most direct on that front, and if you talk to someone who knows CBT, DBT, and Psychodynamic therapy well they'll point out it is mostly all the same shit just with different words for the same concepts.*
The thing CBT primarily does differently is that it attempts to operationalize things by adding in components of homework, written self reflection and so on, but the fundamental insights are essentially the same.
It's tempting to think they are "different classes" but it's more like going to a calculus lecture, and then doing another course with the same content but you get problem sets afterwards.
There are purists out there, especially in Europe but generally people just roll their eyes at them.
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Care to share those studies? How many of them are longitudinal?
I originally read that on the Wikipedia page, and when I tried to hunt down the citations, linkrot has eaten the Google Books excerpt that was supposedly cited, at least the one supposedly claiming that metanalysis showed they were all equivalent. However, after some hunting, I did find that claim in a different, well cited meta analysis down below.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychotherapy
The bolded section is the one I can't easily verify, at least not when it's 9 am and I've been up all night studying.
Specifically regarding CBT, I found the following metanalysis-
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23870719/
And when speaking of CBT as applied to more psychiatric conditions:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3584580/
Addressing the specific claims of similar efficacy to the forms of therapy based on pseudoscientific principles:
Anyway, therapy seems to beat placebo, and works synergistically with drugs, even if you cynically notice that therapy based off nonsense does much the same thing as more considered approaches, but it's not in dispute that it works. At least I have the consolation of being able to throw drugs at people instead of just talking at them if/when I'm a licensed shrink, for all the quibbling about if SSRIs work, ain't nobody claiming their ADHD isn't being helped when they're zooted up on stimulants.
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You should consider that the sample you are looking at to make you believes this is abnormal. People graduate from therapy all the time. Most people with mental illness have some form of stressor(s), if that stressor goes away (mother in law, college, law school, better control over a chronic illness, they age into a better frontal lobe or coping mechanisms) then they may no longer need therapy.
People who are doing ok to well and get therapy anyway are less likely to stop, as are people who are doing really poorly, but plenty of the middle wraps up and moves on.
I think you may be seeing what you want to see here, given how commonly therapy stops.
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I have graduated from therapy, and I know many others who have.
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