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I live by a large shelter for migrants in the city. They have a group of folks who are dedicated to this candy/soda selling on the side of the road. The main reason I think these people are here is for the schools. Word was out from day 1 that they could and should enroll the kids in schools and they have. The local bus stops are bustling with migrants from 6-8am and 3-4 pm. The resource strain is fairly acute, at least locally, on the schools and public transit. I will say they are polite and clean, but there are things that I am seeing as fairly big failure modes. These Venezuelans are terrible drivers, and have crappy cars, so there is a spike in them getting into accidents, where they don't have insurance, registration, or a driver's license. Not great for a court system and PD that is already hard up for manpower. I'm also a bit disappointed in the entrepreneurial spirit of the males in the camp. I tried to hire one to help me get a chair out of a u-haul and up 4 flights of stairs. No bites at $50 for one big ass chair.
maybe they suspected trick/scam? may be effect of living in zero trust society
I dunno. The lady translating for me seemed pretty enthusiastic about my offer and brought it to a group of like 5 guys. Who knows.
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Which, again, would be a good reason to stop letting these people scam our stupid fake asylum system.
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Really!! This is hard to swallow. I would do so and I’m very comfortable.
I would literally do so for free out of common pro-social decency. Not even hypothetically, I helped someone moving into my complex with a large piece of furniture the other day.
Boy, it continues to be a real mystery why the nationalists aren't enthusiastic about adding a group of people that feel no attachment or obligation to Americans into the system...
Yes I think I would too. I might be a little surprised if they weren’t very grateful at the end of it, but otherwise wouldn’t feel like I wasted my time.
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Yeah, it was surprising.
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