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Who was that senator or other guy who, went caught about doing naughty naughty, went on the attack with "I am a gay American"?
Lemme see if I can look him up - Jim McGreevy, that's who.
I'm used to politicians having enormous egos and no shame, but a mere staffer is pushing it a bit.
I don't think it's even that, it's the "how do I get away without admitting fault" reflex at work and he's diverting attention by "This is about my sexuality, isn't it, bigots?" If he was BIPOC/trans/female etc. he'd try that too, because if he fesses up that yeah, he did get his ashes hauled over a desk in the Senate hearing room, well that's not going to help him. I don't know if a criminal trial could be possible here (what exactly is illegal to do in that place?) but certainly maybe a civil trial? Anyway yeah his job is gone, this is all just damage control to make the firing as soft a landing as possible: don't press charges and there won't be a counter-suit about discrimination on a protected status.
I suppose if there is video evidence that shows yes indeed it's him and yes indeed that is what he is doing, there's no chance of getting away with " I love my job and would never disrespect my workplace" as a denial, unless he wants to claim it's all AI deepfakery? For some political agenda, but then again who cares enough about a staffer to do that?
Wrong on two counts. He was Governor of New Jersey. And that wasn't an attack, that was his resignation speech. McGreevy was actually reasonably honest for a New Jersey politician (a low bar to be sure). Sure, he was having gay sex behind his wife's back, but when his gay lover tried to blackmail him he turned the fucker in and resigned. Wikipedia doesn't mention the blackmail, but neither I nor the New York Post has forgotten.
I didn't remember his exact job description, and there was another scandal round about then about some other politician flying in his mistress (or flying off to see his mistress) on the public dime or something.
But I think "okay yeah I was not alone having an affair while married, it was with another man not another woman" is not defensible by claiming "I am a gay American". What is that but a counter that the only reason you are being chastised is due to your sexuality? No, politicians who get caught in affairs with women are also held to the same standards. You're not having to resign because you're gay, it's because you were fucking around and cheating on your wife, and you don't get to play the martyr here.
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