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Ride out with me. Ride out an meet them!
Oh, right, you don't like references to fiction. Ok, to be honest, I'm not saying we should meet them in battle, my assessment of that being suicidal is more or less the same as yours. I was recently made fun of for my plan boiling down to "let's stick together", but yeah, unironically this. They had to wait a while, but it worked for the Jews.
Hey, you asked me for a definition. Ok, so it wasn't an an encyclopedia excerpt, but I thought it did the job. Do definitions require evidence?
So teach your children the ways of the Amish, except that pacifism is bullshit, and that they also need to learn HEMA. I can't guarantee your descendants surviving, but if enough of us do it, some part of us may survive in those that do.
I don't have any (it takes two to tango, after all).
Again, I'm not sure anyone in "the West" — or East Asia, for that matter — survives the coming collapse; that is, if our species survives it at all. (And if so, for how long?)
Well then - Step 1 is find a Mrs. Capital_Room, and make a bunch Secondary_Rooms. Step 2 is teach them HEMA.
Shit, I don't know either, but I can guarantee no descendants of yours survive, if you don't have any!
I'm in my mid-40s and still no success there whatsoever.
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