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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 6, 2023

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What on earth are “gender angles”??

It comes from Dr. Dianne Ehrensaft, one of my favorite characters in this entire saga. She first came to prominence during the Satanic Panic that OP mentioned, not satisfied of only having it on her track record, she decided to jump on the gender bandwagon. I originally heard the term without further explanation, in a video from some trans-care conference, so I had to look it up. Luckily it is now used in academic literature:

Chapter 1, “From Gender Identity Creativity to Gender Identity Creativity: The Liberation of Gender-Nonconforming Children and Youth,” written by clinical and developmental psychologist Diane Ehrensaft, presents the story of the still ongoing liberation of gendernonconforming children from the realms of pathologization and provides glimpses into a new gender-creative world, where gender ghosts (i.e., “internalized thoughts, attitudes, feelings, beliefs, experiences that draw us toward culturally arbitrated binary gender boxes and make us anxious when we or anyone else strays from those boxes,” p. 22) can be and will be replaced by gender angels (“internalized thoughts, attitudes, feelings, beliefs, experiences that allow us to be gender creative and live or accept others living outside of culturally defined binary gender boxes,”

You might also be interested in other terms she promoted like "gender minotaur", "gender Prius", "gender Tesla", "gender smoothie", or "gender Tootsie Roll Pop".