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"Not caring" generally is one thing, turning a blind eye to an ongoing social and medical experiment that involves them is another.
Many more people starve or die violent deaths. By "not care", I mean that children cease registering as an either morally privileged or familiar category; in a way the adult Palestinian civilian feels more relatable and his hardships therefore like more of a concern, because he's a fellow adult and I also think I've interacted more with Palestinians than children in the last 5 years.
(Have you ever used vi, the text editor? Did the "Help poor children in Uganda!" line on the startup screen make it past your mental spam filter? I would guess that for most people, it got filtered well before the current situation I am talking about set in. It's just that for us, all children might as well be poor children in Uganda.)
Constantly, god I love (neo)vi(m). Unintentional buttmoji possibly related...
Never made it past my filter, no. I didn't look into it, let alone donate. I thought it was a bit crass, but at least it was static text, pretty unobtrusive really.
I use it all the time too, and this is the first time I even saw it. Not because it didn't make past the filter, I just don't start it with no file to open.
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You, your friends, and / or the people OP is criticizing, aren't being criticized for not doing anything about the issue, that's par for the course. As you noted, I haven't done anything to help starving African children, but when someone does bring them up, I don't think I ever said anything like "ho hum, it's complicated", or "starvation good, actually", and this is what is happening with the trans issue. "Not caring" does not explain those dynamics.
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