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Sometimes it feels to me like a perceived lack of agency is one of the biggest prizes that can be had. Not so good if it's real, but then again, people are people, and I have my doubts about how much agency can truly vary among (healthy) humans. If it isn't real/is exaggerated, then in extremis it amounts to permission to do whatever you want and everybody just has to accommodate you, because you don't have a choice how to behave.
But that presumes sympathy on the part of the accommodators, which is probably the real prize, in which case this is just one way it manifests.
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I do want to chime in and point out that the exact same people who pitch a fit about religious institutions expecting basic modesty standards if those institutions are Christian are happy to rant about the need to accommodate Islamic dress codes. So definitely a double standard, probably from pure tribalism.
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Mandated hijab wearing is still something American liberals are not entirely ok with. It was one of the things played up back during the invasion of Afghanistan. American liberals generally support the protests in Iran right now over the woman who died in custody for a hijab violation. On the other hand they will overwhelming support the wearing of it if it's framed as empowering the woman from her choice rather than mandated upon her. Sort of like Asians and White privilege.
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