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This kind of response is based on a belief in the hypoagency of women. Since the "believe all women" movement, I constantly see a denial of the agency of adult women.
I believe adult women have agency. If they consent then they consent, IF they say no, they said no. But there's this feminist belief that women cannot say no because of how they have been socialized by society. Which sounds like a fancy way of saying that adult women have no agency, especially regarding sexual matters.
Selective hypoagency is one of the greatest tools in the feminist arsenal for reaching their political goals. They can choose the manner and circumstances in which to ascribe agency (or not) depending on how useful it is in any particular situation.
For instance; Women cannot consent when getting involved in a sexual relationship with a male senior manager, but only after the relationship has turned bad; to do so beforehand would be considered infantilising. When a drunk man and women engage in sex no consent can be given due to the alcohol and this is considered rape by the man due to male hyperagency and female hypoagency. Women, it is often argued, cannot be held responsible for committing crimes and deserve lesser sentencing or even no jail time at all, often because they were pressured into the crime by circumstance (or a male hyperagentic 'ringleader'). Prostitution is something forced on women, ala sex trafficking, and thus being a sex client is often treated as a crime, but not the escorting itself.
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