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Hungary officials warn education is becoming ‘too feminine’
(from a month ago, but not discussed yet, I think)
Hungary's State Audit Office wrote a 19-page (+appendices and references) report on gender and education in Hungary, that is, the gender ratio among teachers, university students, parents' and teachers' expectations of what traits (related to school performance) are feminine and masculine... that sort of things. But the main thing that ruffled people's feathers was something that's probably not so surprising to people of the Motte but is a no-go for the zeitgeist: that so many women having high education leads to issues in partner-finding and therefore it impacts fertility and having children. Concretely, that women try to partner up with men of equal or higher educational and professional level as themselves.
The report: "Pink education" phenomenon in Hungary?! Factors and socio-economic impacts of the overrepresentation of women with tertiary education (Unfortunately, it's only available in Hungarian) (Out of the five authors four are women, if it matters.)
Here is the "Conclusions" section from the beginning:
After this they describe the percentages of female students and teachers in secondary and tertiary education and the surveys on what qualities are seen by parents and teachers as more feminine and also what qualities they think are important for school success, and they found that they overlap highly (ie feminine qualities are needed for school success).
The next interesting section is on the socio-economic consequences of the phenomenon (bold from the original).
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Now, again I don't think this is all too new in this space, but it's interesting what a flurry this obscure report caused even in the international media. It seems to have stepped right on a sensitive toe. The rebuttals aren't on a detailed level though:
And they immediately contextualize it with this sinister atmosphere:
(I have criticized some of those LGBT-related political campaigns of the government myself, but these things can be kept separate.)
A right-wing journalist called attention to many distortions in these articles: Foreign Media Distorts State Audit Office’s Report.
I think it's a good example of how even just touching these types of issues immediately triggers this mental blockage, like "crimestop" in Orwell's 1984. To even care about demography is adjacent to white supremacy, and to consider women's tendency to marry higher in status (hypergamy) is also just a non-starter and is seen equivalent to forcing them to stay in the kitchen.
For a great segment of single women, probably a majority of those who are following social media in the first place, it cuts too close to the bone. It's too horrendous. So I can understand the reactions.
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