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Strong disagree. Isn’t that what the lost cause is all about? That they were in effect just lee-esque, decent, gentlemenlike men doing their duty. By extension, an institution defended by such men couldn’t be all that bad, could it?
I endorse none of these things, even against nazis, so again complete irrelevancy.
cop-out. This is a far more fundamental disagreement than the rest of the comment. Imo after that admission, you’ve forfeited the right to condemn anything the woke, or anyone else, do. Who knows, maybe hitler was right, it’s unanswerable. All you know is that you approve of Rommel’s good manners.
You'd have to talk to a lost-causer about that, I suppose.
I never said you did so that's a deflection, and it's not irrelevant, it directly addresses your argument below.
Not only is it not a cop-out, it would be a glaring contradiction if I answered anything else. You know that, because you've made fun of me when you thought that's what I was doing.
Yes, I agree this is the fundamental disagreement. No, I have not forfeited anything, as I outlined in the other argument that you dismissed as irrelevant, yes the woke might very well be right, and I might be wrong about the big questions, but it is the small things that make them evil.
It’s a common enough defense, that’s why I keep accusing FC of moral relativism, but I always have a hard time believing it is a genuine position, as opposed to a one-off tactic. Who would willingly confess to moral incompetence on all the big questions?
You guys are not behaving as if you just want people to be nice, and refuse to judge/abstain from voting on the big questions. No, you act like your side is entirely morally correct, and part of that case is that your opponents aren’t nice (well, sometimes you argue you shouldn’t be nice either because they started it, but whatever).
Someone honest about limits of their knowledge.
At this point I think you're deliberately misrepresenting what I said. Here, again:
This does not boil down to "I just want people to be nice". Can you at least consciously try to paraphrase the above in your words, in a way that you think I'll recognize as my own views?
That's pretty reductive, but baby steps I suppose. Yes, I did say getting the small things right is more important that answering the grand moral questions, no?
Can you give an example?
Generally, the sub (and FC) is more partisan right-wing than I am on the topics you highlighted, free speech, not firing people, tolerance for differing opinions among friends.
How is that being not nice because they started it?
A common sentiment in the sub is “When we had power, we gave them free speech. Now that they have power, they deny it to us. We won’t make that mistake again.“
I feel like my worldview is close enough to FC's that I can answer for what he said (excluding the time period where he self-admittedly was in a dark place), but I'm not going to answer for "the sub".
Other than that I'm going to need something more specific. I think I had a conversation semi-recently where I defended conservative parents banning progressive books in schools, so depending on how you meant it you could fit that into "not making that mistake again", but in the same conversation I defended the right for progressives to do the same in their communities with conservative books, so I would disagree this is "not being nice because they started it".
Are you denying this is an official @FCfromSSC positionTM ? If anything, he's even more against free speech, ie, 'it was always a sham and could never have worked no matter the opponent'. Now in practice I believe he is less anti-free speech than the woke.
Nevertheless, this is a major problem for your argument. Because firstly people disagree on what the seemingly universal norm of ‘common sense decency’(small-h honor of lee and rommel) even is, and secondly, free speech to me is actually a ‘big question’, so the distinction you’re trying to make, and the world where we all just stick to your small standards, can’t exist.
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This is devolving into petty squabbling, but I don't think 'wanting people to be nice' is a disparaging re-phrasing of your meaning. You admitted they are small things. The 'good manners' analogy is a more hostile paraphrase. And accusing me of cheka membership and a willingness to commit atrocities is on another level entirely. Anyway, I don't think it's for the speaker to define what can be inferred from his arguments.
Sorry, I think I ninja'd in an edit just before you posted.
I don't mind you being disparaging, it's probably unavoidable when two fundamentally different moral worldviews clash. The "good manners" thing actually works as an analogy, especially since we both recognize it as a hostile paraphrase, which is why I don't object to it. What I do mind is you being reductive. What's the point of elaborating on my worldview and giving examples, if you're just going to pretend I didn't say what I said?
Yes and no. Sure, go ahead and extrapolate as much as you want from what I said, even if I might disagree with it, but do not dismiss what I said, at least without making it explicit (calling one of my arguments irrelevant was good in that regard, because I could respond to it).
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