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They largely agree on what the extremes of "degradation" are and long have. They disagree on what exactly the solution is, both because radfems are unwilling to consider biological (eg. psychological) differences between men and women beyond sex and reproduction, and because trads think the entire genie of modernity and related developments can be viably returned to the bottle.
"Radical feminist" doesn't just mean "strong feminist", it refers to people like Firestone or for a relatively low-key example Greer who root their feminism precisely in biological differences between the sexes (and tend to find current trans ideology repulsive and/or incoherent as a result, thus the TERF abbreviation). It could not be further from the truth to say they are unwilling to consider biological differences. Though it would be nearly as far from the truth to suggest they're a significant part of the "woke" social movement you're deploring.
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All that is old is new again. Or, more likely, never changed. But it still sticks out to me that this is pretty much identical to one of the contemporary primary modes of induction into prostitution. Maybe substituting meth or crack for alcohol.
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True, but that's not what I had in mind.
Religious traditionalists believe that the sexual degradation of young single women spiritually ruins them as prospective wives and mothers, which are their proper roles, plus it brings shame to their entire family, but especially their fathers and brothers.
Sex-negative feminists not only do not believe any of that, they are outraged by anyone even making such points.
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