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The bike thing is cool. If you have a good place to ride bikes can be insanely fun.
I don't know how experienced your friend is in teaching adults to ride, or how far you've gotten. But assuming you're still at the literally learning how to balance the bike stage you might consider taking the peddles off and lowering the saddle to use it as a balance bike for a hour or two. Demonstrated here starting from 5:28, but the whole video is worth watching if you are brand new to riding a bike. I don't think adults learn it that much slower than kids, they just tend to have more fear since they are falling from higher. If you are a beginner in the new to the trail sense he also has a good series, would also recommend KyleAprilRideMTB in that case.
Oh, I got balance and coasting fairly quickly and after about 20 minutes was pedalling short distances (about 50 metres or so) and did a few turns. Very wobbly and I found it stressful or lost control of my direction and had to brake, but definitely a good start. I've ridden a bike before only once about 12 years ago.
My friend helped mostly by giving me a push to get some initial speed.
Sounds like your well on your way. Even if it was 12 years ago the muscle memory for riding a bike is very weirdly persistent... Still recommend the video for a very rough description of how the dynamics work, somewhere around the 2:20 mark. If you ever have trouble with the getting started part I recommend this page.
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