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I mean real question- assuming the most lurid details aren’t true, why do we care that much that some escorts he took on vacation happened to be 17 instead of 18? I doubt very much he called the escort agency and asked ‘you got any minors?’, and while it’s reasonable to expect your politicians not to take escorts on vacation and reasonable to go after escort agencies for employing underaged women, it doesn’t seem like it’s a particularly big deal that he(probably unknowingly) got one who was underaged.
I would not let my daughter spend time with Gaetz if I had one, but he’s no Roy Moore. My assumption is that most politicians have mistresses or escorts and if he gets one who lied about her age, it isn’t pedophilia here.
This is definitely a tangent, but I haven’t kept up with political scandals. What do you mean? My recollection is that Moore was accused of some things that were really serious and some things that were merely weird; then, when some of the weird accusations were proved, people spoke as if the grave ones were too, mostly without evidence. But I am fully prepared to have missed some developments in the mean time.
While some of the really serious accusations against Roy Moore were never proven, he did admit to having a series of mistresses he knew to be underaged when he was in his thirties.
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I agree, I’m just saying that it’s still somewhat shady. Like if I found out my boss went on vacations with 17/18 year old escorts I’d consider it “pretty shady” even if not illegal. Maybe sleazy would have been a better term, in hindsight.
Absolutely. It’s shady, it doesn’t make me like him, but it isn’t child sex trafficking.
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