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I've been conditioned to be very suspicious of such accusations and entertain contexts in which the raw allegations could be benign.
Sharing a bed: booking a two bed hotel room might raise suspicion.
Sent a undies / fake tattoos photo: having some racy photos of one another could be used as evidence of a real relationship.
Showering together: maybe this happened in a context where a trafficker offered his shower for them to use together.
"How far are you willing to go": that's a benign question on its own.
The point I'm most curious about is the advantage in presenting as a couple. Is that typical of child trafficking customers? Is it the only way to plausibly have a second person around for backup?
There's also no indication that any sex or even unwanted touching took place.
Presumably it makes for a better cover story if you really do want to bring a child sex slave back home: "yes, this is me and my wife and we are bringing our new adopted/foster child home with us from [Third World country]" while a single man might be deemed more suspicious. I don't know.
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Wait, were these temple garments? Because that’d be hilarious if so.
My guess is that he was not wearing garments for his sex trafficker undercover work...though that would certainly be a Choice
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