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I've noticed this as well. To me it signals that I am imbibing so many of the same ideas as other people, reading the same blogs and watching the same videos and listening to the same podcasts, that the same things are occurring to me at the same time.
If you are demographically and culturally similar to the public intellectuals you read (raised in the same kind of town went to the same kinds of schools at around the same time etc.), if you plug in the same inputs you will get some of the same outputs.
I noticed it when I would read a lot of fashion blogs in undergrad, I would pick something up at the thrift store and two months later I would see it on some trash-tier zine's front page. To a certain extent, this is what we mean when we talk about developing "taste."
Jungian Collective Unconsciousness strikes again.
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My conclusion as a person with “taste” is that I’m a solid second rate mind. Not smart enough to be the leader like a Cowen or Alexander but able to get things early. Someone once said a writers readers are one intellectual tier lower. Either that or there is something about work ethic of the high volume thought leaders. Feynman had a quote about having 7 or so ideas he was working on and whenever a new process or paper would come out he would apply that to the things he was working on to see if he got a result. So perhaps there is some combination of being smarter or having better work processes/discipline.
Are you a girl?
No, I distinctly am not. But who knows anymore.
A lot of it is work ethic, or just putting hours in every week to produce content. Nobody remembers the blog posts that kinda suck.
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