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I am from this culture, as is my whole family. I have never heard of straight hair being a particular influence on anyone's desires. Non-brown eyes as well are extremely extremely rare (my aunt has green eyes, other than that I can probably count on my hands the number of people I've seen with them back home) and even when people give a damn about it it's mostly for women rather than men.
Same with fair skin. Fair skin is a massive plus yes, but again more so for women than men and also it's only a plus because fair skin is associated with being higher caste (not universally true but that's the association). However this only extends to the point where the fair skin makes you mimic a high caste, being albino gets you no benefits at all. Same with being whiter than a Mediterranean, at that point your skin is so pale that it's very clear you're an outsider who's not even part of the caste system, and that gets you back down to bringing no beneifts. An Italian could benefit from "fair skin", a Nordic will not.
One of my earliest memories is my mother telling me (when I was around 3) that when I grow up I will marry an educated, intelligent girl who is a Muslim. She told me that if the girl was not Muslim but really loved me, she would convert, and if she didn't that was a sign it wasn't true love. (the Muslim bit is a stand in for similar cultural values, plenty of Muslims have different cultural values to me and would not make a good fit, my parents would also not be happy if I got a Muslim girl from a family that drank alcohol).
For a long time I was poisoned by western propaganda and scoffed at this, why did it matter whether she converted to Islam or I converted to her religion? For after all love is love and the situation is symmetric. I even went so far as to hurt my mother by saying that it wasn't a given that my children would be Muslim (this is one of the big regrets I have). However now that I have grown up and become wiser I have realized the value of what she spoke of, and now not only will I not marry a non-Muslim woman but if she converts I will rightfully place more conditions on her expected behavior compared to a woman who was born Muslim (no different to how banks charge more interest on loans from poor people compared to rich people). After having a good heart, cultural and values fit is the most important thing needed for a successful marriage (even more so than similar intelligence levels).
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