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OP is in Asia(I'm guessing Singapore or Nagasaki?) so it might be different there, but in much of the world Catholic parishes never have women and men cooking at the same time- either the entirely-male Knights of Columbus or equivalent handle putting it on(this is most common with events like a fish fry, where attendees pay directly for plates at a big batch meal), or the ladies of whatever volunteer society have a potluck. The main exceptions would be either ethnic parishes, where there might be some kind of parish-wide ethnic food fundraiser(these are probably less common in Asia) or cartoonishly wealthy parishes where individual parishioners are able to feed the entire crowd.
Just fyi, but I'm a german catholic and our local youth organisation Messdiener (literally "mass servants", when I was still a kid we would be obligated to help with the mass ~once per month per person) as well as the katholische Landjugend (literally "catholic rural youth", technically different but generally speaking was just the same people as the Messdiener) include both men and women, and does these kinds of things. From the things I remember off the top of my hat, the yearly 2-weeks camping trips had plenty of supervising adults of both sexes present and dating was rampant both between adults as well as the kids (sometimes even between the two groups if the age differential wasn't too big), likewise charity events like "72-hours of help" which usually involved building and/or repairing houses for charitable accommodation or for religious events.
But for both groups it would be very unusual to join only as an adult.
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