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Being a mess is definitely part lifestyle choice. So too: some people really are ugly, and know it.
About your female friend: what ultimately happened to her? She reminds me some of my burned friend, to be honest. Did the burns take her sight or cause her any other health issues?
To my knowledge she had no health issues, but we weren't that close, just had some classes together, I never even learned what caused the burns. Really fit, fantastic body. Sometimes I think I should have married a woman like that, with an obvious physical flaw that I think I could have gotten past better than most men. Would have been more efficient than marrying a woman who is, honestly, a lot hotter than she needs to be to keep me around.
What was her personality like? My burned friend was blunt, cynical, bitter, and funny. I'm trying to reconnect with her. At the time - in high school - I'd had (or at least thought I had) a lot of interest from girls. And I was openly disinterested in sex and relationships then, believing I wasn't ready at the time. I would've found her very attractive had she been confident and not cared about the shit she took for being burned. Now, I'd be interested in her as she is...a dozen years have made me more cynical, like she was. I could've gotten past her face then, and could get past her face now - it was the sadness that was a turn-off for me.
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