The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:
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Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.
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Updates to let us know how you are doing. This provides valuable feedback on past advice / encouragement and will hopefully make people feel a little more motivated to follow through. If you want to be reminded to post your update, see the post titled 'update reminders', below.
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Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.
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Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).
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I don't feel like I'm infatuated with my wife but I definitely feel like I love her. I believe it's perfectly normal for the initial infatuation to fade but another love to stay/develop.
Furthermore, I believe there is something to the advice that love isn't just something that happens to you, something that you feel, but it's also very much something you do and those acts in turn makes you feel feelings of love.
Kissing your wife isn't only downstream from loving them, it's also upstream. If you want to love your partner more you should behave more like you love your partner. The opposite is true as well.
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