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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 10, 2023

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I'm guessing this either an extremely rare occurrence or just a flat out fabrication.

dry humping a guy is pretty tame compared to the horror stories from other sports. junior hockey in particular has hazing rituals that sound like they came from ancient cults.

And it went far beyond a little innocent fun at the expense of the new guy. In Kamloops it was particularly humiliating. Rookies there would regularly and repeatedly have the knobs of hockey sticks covered in heat liniment inserted into their anuses. Toothpicks covered in liniment were inserted into their urethras. They were made to read pornographic magazines and were hazed on whether or not they got erections. Veterans would defecate and force the rookies to throw it at each other. Players would tie a skate lace to the end of a rookie’s penis, throw the lace over a pipe and tie the other end to a pail in which they would toss pucks, allowing the rookie free only after there were 25 pucks in the bucket. In Seattle, Ledlin said the veterans hired out prostitutes and forced the rookies to have sex with them.

or from the nba, shaq proudly recounted how he once spent an entire week shitting in a bucket, then dumped it on a rookie's head.

Gary Payton embellished a story about Shaq in a podcast ~30 years later. Shaq denies it ever including shit, never more than a day of piss, and claims it often was fake piss. The story hasn't been corroborated by others at all, so I'm trusting Shaq here.

That hockey story is from 1980s for example and culture has refined. The base level of 'hazing' that acceptable by society has radically changed.

Individual 'power-spikes' where incidents get out of hand and people get too into the hazing in a sole incident I find more plausible than an tradition-based repeat thing. Especially where it's homoerotic in nature. The myth of something like that never dies & tends to lead to a large impact than reality.