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You don't have the right to expose other people's kids to any ideas the parents don't want them exposed to. Parents have an absolute veto on any random creeps having physical or digital contact with their kids and doing it behind their back via discord is disgusting.
I didn't say anything about where the final right over a child's development lay. If you want to pivot to that instead of defending your use of "grooming" to make your emotional response to trans people completely obvious, then go ahead. But that's a boring conversation to be had here.
I'm saying it doesn't matter what X a group of people want, if what they want results in convincing children of X behind their parents backs its an issue
I know what you're saying. I understood it since I first responded to you. But you did some drive-by culture warring in the process, I'm calling you out on that.
Fair enough, my point is that I'd feel the same way about a parent catching their kid on, idk, an 8chan discord server being convinced to be more racist. I don't like trans people but my opinion here is based on the action of going behind parents backs to brainwash their kids - not who's doing it. Just making that clear!
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