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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 26, 2023

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I'm going to take a page out of the tankie playbook and say that if your friend's family suffered, it must mean they were commie bastards who deserved it.

What is this comment supposed to achieve? Are you being ironic? Are you literally saying someone whose family personally suffered deserved it? Speak plainly and less inflammatorily.

You just modded me for my amount of empathy towards females, remember that? It's the same thing. I'm sick and tired of being forced to extend my hand towards people who want to see me killed. That guy's dead family would have cheered and hollered watching me whimpering before my execution by their preferred government, why the fuck do I have to be a bigger man?

I don't care how much empathy you do or don't have for anyone, or whether or not you're a "bigger man." But this is not the place for posting low effort comments that do nothing but express your vitriolic rage.

I knew that the majority of users here would want me dead after I expressed support for the only historical figure ever who stood for people like me. The handful rest would kill me for some other characteristics if I revealed them. So go on, ban me in a symbolic way of advocating for my death, I expect nothing less. After all, I would put a screwdriver through your eyeballs if I could.

All right, if that's all you have to contribute and you're basically begging to be banned - done.

Cycle of violence my friend. I'm going to assume with a comment like that that your family ought to be Roman-offed.

I would be inconsolable if my family were executed, but only because they're my family. I'm just a weak human and not a flawless embodiment of righteous political judgement.